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Thomas Haapsaari

03:26 Mar 31 2018
Times Read: 788


Always think how you could help other people. The more you help others the more they will help you. And the more helpful you are the more you’ll get good opportunities. So, turn your mindset from yourself to serving others.
Written by Tuomas Haapsaari


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ShadowOnTheWall
ShadowOnTheWall
03:49 Mar 31 2018

I love this one.





Cultwatch
Cultwatch
04:12 Mar 31 2018

Thank you





 

Rasheed Ogunlaru

02:39 Mar 31 2018
Times Read: 808


The human mind and what we've achieved with it is remarkable. But it does not come close to what we can do, be, see and heal with our hearts

Rasheed Ogunlaru


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ShadowOnTheWall
ShadowOnTheWall
02:59 Mar 31 2018

Good quote. Our hearts, our sense of empathy is such a vital thing. It helps us connect (or try to) and understand each other.





Cultwatch
Cultwatch
03:03 Mar 31 2018

Thank you for your kind words





ShadowOnTheWall
ShadowOnTheWall
03:10 Mar 31 2018

Thank you for sharing the lovely quotes :)





 

Sandra o connor

11:15 Mar 29 2018
Times Read: 829


President Ronald Reagan nominates Sandra Day O’Connor to be the first woman on the Supreme Court, 1981
O’Connor was confirmed that September. She did not have much judicial experience when she began her Supreme Court term—she had only been a judge for a few years and had never served on a federal court—but she soon made a name for herself as one of the Court’s most thoughtful centrists. O’Connor retired in 2006.


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Entangled whale

08:43 Mar 29 2018
Times Read: 838


An Entangled Whale's Gratitude
A female humpback whale had become entangled in a spider web of crab traps and lines. She was weighted down by hundreds of pounds of traps that caused her to struggle to stay afloat. She also had hundreds of yards of line rope wrapped aroun...d her body, her tail, her torso, a line tugging in her mouth. This is her story of giving gratitude. A fisherman spotted her just east of the Faralon Islands (outside the Golden Gate) and radioed for help. Within a few hours, the rescue team arrived and determined that she was so badly off, the only way to save her was to dive in and untangle her…. a very dangerous proposition. One slap of the tail could kill a rescuer. They worked for hours with curved knives and eventually freed her. When she was free, the divers say she swam in what seemed like joyous circles. She then came back to each and every diver, one at a time, nudged them, and pushed gently, thanking them. Some said it was the most incredibly beautiful experience of their lives. The guy who cut the rope out of her mouth says her eye was following him the whole time, and he will never be the same. May you be so fortunate … To be surrounded by people who will help you get untangled from the things that are binding you. And, may you always know the joy of giving and receiving gratitude.


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Nelson Mandela

08:12 Mar 29 2018
Times Read: 840


And if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love.” Nelson Mandela


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ShadowOnTheWall
ShadowOnTheWall
03:02 Mar 31 2018

Beautiful quote. He was filled with so much love and forgiveness for those that hurt him. His emotional strength and intelligence has inspired many.





Cultwatch
Cultwatch
03:05 Mar 31 2018

Thank you again





 

Rosa Parks

08:06 Mar 29 2018
Times Read: 842


“Memories of our lives, of our works and our deeds will continue in others.”
Rosa Parks


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Rosa Parks

09:22 Mar 28 2018
Times Read: 879


At the time I was arrested I had no idea it would turn into this. It was just a day like any other day. The only thing that made it significant was that the masses of the people joined in. Rosa Parks


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Rosa Park

09:08 Mar 28 2018
Times Read: 880


“Each person must live their life as a model for others.”
Rosa Parks


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Rosa Park

08:55 Mar 28 2018
Times Read: 883


Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again?
Rosa Park


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Rosa Park

08:53 Mar 28 2018
Times Read: 884


Arrest me for sitting on a bus? You may do that.
Rosa Parks


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Muhammad Ali

08:35 Mar 28 2018
Times Read: 893


As a man who tried to unite all humankind through faith and love.”
Muhammad Ali 

Champion boxer and great character. Refused to fight in Vietnam war and became a champion of civil rights and African interests.


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Courage

12:04 Mar 27 2018
Times Read: 917


Courage on a Daily Basis
Not all acts of courage need to be known worldwide to be defined as brave. Here are some examples of ways to be courageous in daily life.
Trying a food that you've never tried before.
Engaging in a new experience.
Asking someone out on a date.
Doing something that might be a little risky such as sky diving or riding a bike for the first time.
Standing up for a person who is being picked on.
Asking for a promotion or a raise at work.
Helping out a person or animal in need, even if it might put you in a little bit of danger.
Standing up for yourself.
Leaving an abusive relationship.
Taking a stand against an unfair social or economic practice.
Doing something by yourself for the first time.
Making a public presentation about something you believe in.
Standing up against racism or prejudice.
Leaving a job that you don't like and trying to find a new one.
Signing up for a program or class that intimidates you.
Checking out a soup kitchen, volunteer program, etc. to see if they offer any connections in helping to be more courageous.
Engaging in small acts such as the ones mentioned above can eventually lead you down the road toward more global acts of courage. Simply getting involved with a volunteer opportunity at the local level can open doors to bigger projects involving human rights or rescue opportunities.


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Malala Yousafzai

08:49 Mar 27 2018
Times Read: 926


Malala Yousafzai :

She wanted to go to school (in a country where education is NOT permitted for girls), and decided to fight for it. After receiving numerous death-threats in the newspapers, she was SHOT IN HER HEAD in 2012 at the alge of 15 ! Luckily, she survived. She received the Nobel Peace prize a few years later.


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India Gandhi

08:39 Mar 27 2018
Times Read: 929


Indira Gandhi (1917–1984) First female prime minister of India. She was in power from between 1966–77 and 1980–84. Accused of authoritarian tendencies she only narrowly avoided a military coup by agreeing to hold an election at the end of the “emergency period” of 1977. She was assassinated in 1984 by her Sikh bodyguards, in response to her storming of the Golden Temple


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Clropatra

08:33 Mar 27 2018
Times Read: 934


Cleopatra:
69–30 B.C.
Queen of Egypt and the last pharaoh. She was 17 or 18 when she became queen. Cleopatra was a shrewd politician who spoke nine languages. During her reign, Egypt became closely aligned with the Roman Empire.


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Frances Perkins

12:39 Mar 26 2018
Times Read: 953


Frances Perkins becomes the first female member of a Presidential cabinet, 1933
Perkins, a sociologist and Progressive reformer in New York, served as Franklin D. Roosevelt’s Secretary of Labor. She kept her job until 1945


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Marie curie

12:10 Mar 26 2018
Times Read: 960


1903: Marie Curie becomes the first woman to receive Nobel Prize. ...


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Mary dunbar

09:17 Mar 26 2018
Times Read: 972


We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and our adventure to discover our own special light. ~Mary Dunbar


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Accept

08:38 Mar 26 2018
Times Read: 984


Accept the children the way we accept trees—with gratitude, because they are a blessing—but do not have expectations or desires. You don’t expect trees to change, you love them as they are.” Isabel Allende


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Inspiring quotes

08:36 Mar 26 2018
Times Read: 986


Forgiveness means an action or process of forgiving; for example to stop feeling angry or to stop blaming others. Be encouraged by these forgiveness quotes.


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Inspiring quotes

08:33 Mar 26 2018
Times Read: 992


Give the world the best you have anyway.” “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”


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Folorunsho Alakija

08:32 Mar 26 2018
Times Read: 994


So I am 63 and I am not yet done. So what is your excuse? I never went to a University and I am proud to say so because I don’t think I have done too badly.” – Folorunsho Alakija, Vice Chair, Famfa Oil


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Joybell

10:10 Mar 25 2018
Times Read: 1,024


When women and girls, everywhere, begin to see themselves as more than inanimate objects; but as beautiful beings capable of deep feelings and high thoughts, this has the capacity to create change all around. The kind of change that is for the better.” -C. JoyBell C.


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Emma Stone

10:07 Mar 25 2018
Times Read: 1,027


“I can’t think of any better representation of beauty than someone who is unafraid to be herself.” - Emma Stone


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Faith

07:51 Mar 25 2018
Times Read: 1,034


Faith is a Hollywood stunt woman and was the first person to walk a rope connecting two moving trucks. Again, super dangerous, not at all advised, but alas, apparently not impossible.

Read more: http://www.gurl.com/2013/02/26/first-woman-to/#ixzz5Ak0B8vPI


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Joanne Rowling

07:45 Mar 25 2018
Times Read: 1,036


Newly divorced and struggling to make ends meet, single mom Joanne Rowling turned to work on the novel she had been outlining for five years. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone was published in 1997 under the name “J.K.” Rowling—her publisher didn’t believe a woman’s name would appeal to young boys. Six books and 10 years later, Harry Potter has shattered sales records and enthralled millions of reader of all ages.


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martin luther king

19:41 Mar 24 2018
Times Read: 1,056


Let no man pull you low enough to hate him. — Martin Luther King Jr.


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Suu Kyi

12:02 Mar 24 2018
Times Read: 1,087


Aung San Suu Kyi has become an international symbol of peaceful resistance in the face of oppression.

Now the Burmese opposition politician and chairperson of the National League for Democracy in Burma, she spent 15 years under house arrest for advocating for democracy.

Suu Kyi, who was heavily influenced by Gandhi’s philosophy of non-violent protest, helped to found the National League for Democracy. Because of her campaign for democracy in military-ruled Myanmar (Burma), she was detained and kept imprisoned by the government, as it viewed her as someone “likely to undermine the community peace and stability” of the country.

She was offered freedom if she left the country, but she refused to let her party down and stayed in Mynanmar.

In one of her most famous speeches, she said: “It is not power that corrupts, but fear. Fear of losing power corrupts those who wield it and fear of the scourge of power corrupts those who are subject to it.”


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ain't I a women

11:43 Mar 24 2018
Times Read: 1,098


“Life is a hard battle anyway. If we laugh and sing a little as we fight the good fight of freedom, it makes it all go easier. I will not allow my life's light to be determined by the darkness around me.”
-- Sojourner Truth


-- Sojourner Truth


Sojourner Truth Speech of 1851, "Ain't I a Woman" video


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Ladymindy
Ladymindy
11:58 Mar 24 2018

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Sojourner truth

11:35 Mar 24 2018
Times Read: 1,101


Sojourner Truth (1797–1883) African-American abolitionist and women’s rights campaigner. She gave a famous extemporaneous speech “Ain’t I a woman?” which supported equal rights for blacks and women.


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Albert einstein

11:12 Mar 24 2018
Times Read: 1,131


Albert Einstein was kicked out of many schools when he was growing up because he had a bad attitude and he was lazy.  He eventually took matters into his own hands and dropped out of school completely when he was 15.

Age:Died at 76 (1879-1955)Birthplace:Eurasia, Baden-Württemberg, Germany, Ulm

Twilight" star Robert Pattinson has said that he was "quite bad in school."  Pattinson was so band that he was eventually expelled for not completing his homework.

Age:31Birthplace:London, United Kingdom


The Notebook" star Ryan Gosling was suspended from school for bringing steak knives with him to class and threatening other students with them.  He was later diagnosed with ADHD and placed in a special need classroom.

Age:37

Marlon Brando was expelled from high school for riding his motorcycle in the halls.  He was also expelled from military school for smoking and getting into fights.

Age:Died at 80 (1924-2004)Birthplace:Omaha, Nebraska, United States of America

Cary Grant didn't get upset when he was expelled from school.  He used the experience as an opportunity to focus on acting and he joined a theatre troop.

Age:Died at 82 (1904-1986)Birthplace:Horfield, United Kingdom

Has years passed by, they changed behavior and become successful and loved.


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Puppies for sale

07:53 Mar 23 2018
Times Read: 1,183


 A store owner was putting up a sign that read "Puppies for Sale". Soon a little boy came along and asked, " How much are you gonna sell those puppies for ? "  The store owner replied, "Anywhere between $30 to $50." The little boy reached into his pocket and pulled out some change. He said, " I have only $2.37, but can I have a look at them?" The store owner smiled and whistled.
      Out of the kennel came his dog named Lady, running down the aisle followed by five little puppies. 

     One puppy was lagging considerably behind. The little boy immediately singled him out. He asked the owner what was wrong with that one and the owner explained that the pup was born with a bad hip socket and would limp all his life. 

     The little boy was all set to buy that particular pup. The store owner tried to convince him that he would not really want a lame pup, but the little boy was adamant to buy the same for the same price as the others. He did not want the store owner to give the pup to him free. He looked him straight in the eye and said, " This pup is worth every bit as much as the other dogs and I'll pay the full price. In fact, I will give you $2.37 now and 50 cents every month until I have him paid for." Still the store owner tried to tell the boy that the pup would not be able to run, jump and play like the other puppies. Then the little boy reached down and rolled up his pant leg to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. He looked up at the man and said, "Well, I don't run so well myself and the little puppy will need someone who understands."

      Tears welled up in the store owner's eyes and he smiled and said, "Son, I hope that each and every one of these puppies will have an owner such as you."

     We may never know of a greater character unless there is in ourselves something congenial to it. In life, it does'nt matter who you are, but whether, someone appreciates you for what you are, accepts you and loves you unconditionally.

jyotsna


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hannahrose
hannahrose
10:45 Mar 26 2018


SO VERY TOUCHING AND MADE ME CRY. SO MANY PEOPLE SEEM TO ONLY WANT TO BE AROUND OTHERS WHO HAVE A PERFECT APPEARANCE BACKGROUND WEALTH ETC. AND THOSE WHO THE WORLD SEES AS UGLY STUPID POOR OR WHO HAVE MADE MISTAKES LIKE BEING A CRIMINAL ARE OFTEN HARSHLEY JUDGED REJECTED AND THEN IGNORED. EVERY PERSON AND EVERY ANIMAL HAS SOMETHING OF GOOD AND OF WORTH TO SHARE ,NO MATTER THEIR RACE RELIGION STATUS IN LIFE EDUCATION APPEARANCE, ETC WHETHER THEY ARE A HUMBLE ANIMAL OR A PERSON. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS.




 

Love

07:35 Mar 23 2018
Times Read: 1,192


When others feel the unconditional love, it is the greatest connection of all.

Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations, or love without conditions. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism or complete love.

Everyone deserves love


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Denying

07:29 Mar 23 2018
Times Read: 1,197


Denying others is the same as denying ourselves.

forgive ourselves and our own doings.


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Let go

07:27 Mar 23 2018
Times Read: 1,199


When we let go of the judgment, criticism, hatred and forgive others, we have released the tension inside us.

Forgive all the past hurts and the mistakes others have made.

Even when the behavior may not be what we like, they are still a part of us.

Those who absolutely wish ill wills and bring pain into our lives, forgive them.

I see those who calls themselves “highly spiritual” and wishes others who don’t follow their beliefs to burn in eternity as they ascend to higher dimensions.

I’m sure anyone with unconditional love in their heart would NOT want that in their reality.

For what love has any room for seeing others suffer for eternity?

Denying others is the same as denying ourselves.

Take the time to list out the people who have hurt us and quietly forgive them in our minds.

And most of all, forgive ourselves and our own doings.

Acceptance

Have you ever been around someone who accepted you? How did it make you feel about yourself?

Did you feel more confident and happier around this person?  Did you even feel smarter or automatically do the right things around this person?

On the other hand, have you ever been around someone who looked down on you, who were critical of you, and who didn’t think you amounted to much?

The person who makes you feel unaccepted can make you feel worse about yourself, lonelier, and less confident.

Acceptance is flow. It is an opening of energetic connection.

It is saying that I am free and so are you.

Welcome others with a genuine smile.
Be calm and in control. And respect their reality of the world.

When people feel accepted, they will show you more.

When others feel the unconditional love, it is the greatest connection of all.

And of course, it is our natural gift and power.

With forgiveness and acceptance shall we open ourselves to healing.


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Let it go

06:40 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,222


If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, or never hate him/her. Everything and everyone that you hate is engraved upon your heart; if you want to let go of something, if you want to forget, you cannot hate.

C. JoyBell C.


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Let it go

06:38 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,223


Maybe at first you felt righteous about it, like the anger was helping you move forward. ... Instead, work on learning how to forgive yourself for getting so caught up in the drama of your personal life and allowing your anger and resentment to hurt you and hold you back. Letting go is not as hard as it may seem.


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06:33 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,225


’its been nearly a decade since Chris Williams, a father who was taking his family for ice cream one evening, got into a collision with an underage drunk driver while driving on the highway. The impact of the crash left Chris’ nine-year-old daughter, 11-year-old son, and his pregnant wife dead. Though Chris lost his family instantly, his immediate thought before he had been rescued from his car was forgiveness. “Whoever has done this to us, I forgive them. I don’t care what the circumstances were, I forgive them,” remembers Chris.

Fast forward to 2016, and Chris has turned his traumatic experience into something positive. He’s currently a motivational speaker sharing his story with others. He also has a film called, Just Let Go, that illustrates the power of forgiveness. “Forgive for your sake, not the other person’s. Forgive because if you don’t, your bitterness will.


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Forgiveness

06:27 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,226


Forgiveness can help you overcome feelings of depression, anxiety, and rage, as well as personal and relational conflicts. It is about making the conscious decision to let go of a grudge.


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Compassion

06:22 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,227


Opening Heart and Mind Helps Connect and Heal

Running groups for survivors of domestic violence, I hear stories about physical, emotional, and verbal abuse. These stories are traumatic and heart-breaking. They all share a common theme of fear, loss of identity, and confusion. The shared experience of having to set aside their needs in an attempt to meet the needs of a controlling partner, whose wants and expectations are insatiable and unrealistic, left them with a sense of low self-worth, shame, and suffering. What helps them heal and become empowered is their ability to let go of judgment, share their stories in a supportive environment, and learn to develop a practice of self-care and compassion.


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Compassion

06:20 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,229


My first encounter in learning to confront suffering with compassion was many years ago, when I held a position as an intern at a center for survivors of domestic violence. In this environment, I learned a great deal about extreme suffering, as the women I encountered lived in a hostile, aggressive, and sometimes dangerous environment. In the beginning I felt overwhelmed just trying to learn how to help people deal with life-threatening, painful situations while remaining objective. Working in this setting was stressful, and I recall leaving the center in tears as I watched clients return to hostile and oftentimes dangerous situations. It brought up deep feelings of helplessness, frustration, and judgment.

In helping these survivors, my initial reaction was to try and fix, change, or in some way rescue them. This was a reactive response as I was trying to get the pain (theirs and mine) to subside, and guess what? It didn’t work! It only increased my own feelings of helplessness and didn’t create the supportive, compassionate environment that promotes healing and empowerment. Luckily, I had a compassionate, patient, and wonderful supervisor who taught me that providing a nonjudgmental presence, connecting with an open heart, and having compassion towards the person, and myself, as I listened to their stories was what healed. This meant I had to let go of trying to control the outcome and allow myself to be present with their pain and my own. It was a growth experience that continues to help me in my professional and personal life.

Opening Heart and Mind Helps Connect and Heal

Running groups for survivors of domestic violence, I hear stories about physical, emotional, and verbal abuse. These stories are traumatic and heart-breaking. They all share a common theme of fear, loss of identity, and confusion. The shared experience of having to set aside their needs in an attempt to meet the needs of a controlling partner, whose wants and expectations are insatiable and unrealistic, left them with a sense of low self-worth, shame, and suffering. What helps them heal and become empowered is their ability to let go of judgment, share their stories in a supportive environment, and learn to develop a practice of self-care and compassion.

What Gets in the Way of Compassion

As we travel through life we will encounter pain. It might be through the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or recovery from a severe illness. Or perhaps it’s the small stuff that brings up feelings of shame, inadequacy, or worthlessness. When this happens, the tendency is to get lost in judgment; we beat ourselves or others up in an attempt to stop the pain. This only intensifies our suffering. Caught in this reactive response we forget that there’s a real need to treat ourselves with kindness, love, and compassion. When we turn towards suffering with compassion it helps us heal and reconnect with life.

The Practice of Compassion

In helping people learn the skill of transforming reactivity into a compassionate and caring response, I use the example of a hurt child or a pet. I ask them how they would help a child who is sad or a pet that is hurt. What would that response look like? They usually state they’d give the child or pet a hug and comfort them with kind words or a gentle touch. Our deepest need, when we are in pain, is compassion; this is what helps us heal. It is not a luxury, it’s a necessity! This turning towards pain, with an open heart and the intention to heal, is what helps us to live life fully.

Developing Self-Compassion

Becoming aware of when we are reacting or in any way judging ourselves is the first step. The second step is to become present with how our bodies, minds, and hearts are responding to the experience of pain. Setting an intention to be kind towards ourselves and let go of reacting is what helps us to connect with compassion.

The following are some steps you can take towards developing a caring and compassionate practice:

Awareness is the first step! Notice when you are reactive or triggered. Your body sends signals when reactivity happens. You might feel blood rushing to your face or a tensing up of the hands or body. Your breathing may be shallow and your thoughts may be filled with judgment.Connect with the present moment by letting go of thoughts and focusing on the sensation of the breath as it comes in and out of your body, or focus on feeling the ground beneath your feet. This helps to slow down reactivity and calm the mind.Place your hand on your heart in acknowledgment of the difficulty you are facing in this moment. Imagine the placing of the hand on the heart as symbolic of opening the heart to compassion or sending healing to the hurt place inside.Visualize yourself held or embraced by a spiritual figure or someone who loves you.Allow yourself to take in the healing sensation of compassion until you feel calmer and more connected to the present moment.

When we allow ourselves to care for ourselves and others, it is a profound act of kindness that refills the heart, energizes the body, and nourishes the soul. In that moment of opening our hearts to self and others, we recognize the immense healing power of compassion and reconnect with life and love.

May you be free from suffering.

May your heart be filled with compassion.

© Copyright 2012 by Cindy Ricardo, LMHC, 


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Against corruption

06:09 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,233


  People have power and can use it to curb corruption. The efficacy of civil resistance is not a matter of theory. Nonviolent social movements and civic campaigns have a rich history of ending oppression and injustice, and the apparatus of state and other forms of corruption. A 2009 study found that over the past 110 years, violent campaigns succeeded historically in only 26 percent of all cases, compared to 53 percent in the case of nonviolent, civilian-based campaigns.[i] Over the past twenty years, from the 1986 “People Power” uprising in the Philippines to the “Color Revolutions” in the former Soviet Union, corruption has been a source of deep public discontent and a key mobilizing issue of nonviolent social movements. A post on the dynamics of people power and civil resistance will follow later today. In a few hours I’ll add in the  resources section a list of good books on the history of civic power, civil resistance and nonviolent campaigns and movements.

 2) It is ordinary citizens who bear the brunt of corruption, have direct experience of it, and suffer from it. For people, corruption isn’t abstract; it can be encountered in daily life and impact their health, education, security, jobs and even survival: from a widow who cannot get her food ration card because she cannot afford the bribe demanded by the civil servant, to voters whose elected officials siphon off or misuse funds intended to alleviate poverty, to parents whose children die in collapsed schools during a strong earthquake while nearby buildings remain standing (all real examples).

Aruna Roy, one of the founders of the Mazdoor Kisan Shakti Sangathan (MKSS) movement for the “Right to Information” in India, characterizes corruption as “the external manifestation of the denial of a right, an entitlement, a wage, a medicine…" Thus corruption doesn’t occur in a vacuum; it is linked to many other social ills and injustices in society, from violence to poverty, human rights abuses, authoritarianism, unaccountability, substandard medical care and education, and environmental destruction, and other concerns.

 3) As a result, when citizens fight corruption, the priorities often shift from traditional, top-down, technocratic, rules-based strategies to curbing those forms of graft and abuse that are most harmful or common to citizens, particularly the poor. Curbing corruption is part of a larger set of goals for accountability, participatory democracy, and social and economic justice. Over the next few days we'll share real examples of cases - some going on right now - of nonviolent, civic campaigns and movements to fight corruption.


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Womem

06:04 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,235


Women should be optimistically encouraged to exercise their power and their leadership skills wherever it might take them.” The Majesty of the Law: Reflections of a Supreme Court Justice, 


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Womem

06:03 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,235


Women should be optimistically encouraged to exercise their power and their leadership skills wherever it might take them.” —The Majesty of the Law: Reflections of a Supreme Court Justice, 


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Dr.elizabeth.blackwell

06:00 Mar 22 2018
Times Read: 1,237


Dr. Elizabeth Blackwell was the first woman to receive a medical degree from an American medical school, after overcoming several odds against her – including admittance to an all-male institution and financing medical school. With Dr. Marie Zakrzewska, and her sister Emily, who also became a doctor, she opened the New York Infirmary for Women and Children in 1856. A medical college was also opened along with it in 1857, which broadened opportunities for women doctors by providing training and necessary experience, as well as specialized medical care for the poor.


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Shirin Shadi

09:54 Mar 21 2018
Times Read: 1,263


Shirin Shadi a Iranian judge and lawyer. Fought for the right for women to pursue a legal career in Iran. She has also defended opposition dissidents who have fallen foul of the Iranian judicial system.


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Excommunicated lost boys

09:38 Mar 21 2018
Times Read: 1,267


The lost boys, excommunicated and thrown out of US sect so that older men can marry more wives


Up to 1,000 teenage boys have been separated from their parents and excommunicated out of their communities by a polygamous sect to make more young women available for older men, Utah officials claim.

Many of these "Lost Boys", some as young as 13, have simply been dumped on the side of the road in Arizona and Utah, by the leaders.


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Malala Yousafzai

09:09 Mar 21 2018
Times Read: 1,279


Malala Yousafzai a Pakistani schoolgirl who defied threats of the Taliban to campaign for the right to education for girls. She survived being shot in the head by the Taliban and has become a global advocate for human rights, women’s rights and the right to education. She has sought to emphasise the peaceful nature of Islam and the respect Islam has for education.


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Sad news

17:29 Mar 20 2018
Times Read: 1,301


Bryan Michael Egnew, 40 was excommunicated from a church I won't mentioned for being homosexual. A week after that he commit suicide.


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hannahrose
hannahrose
09:01 Mar 21 2018


SO VERY HEART BREAKING AND TRAGIC, AND THATS DISCRIMINATION. EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO LIVE THEIR LIFE THE WAY THEY WANT TO, SO LONG AS THEY HARM NO OTHER PERSON. NO ONE SHOULD JUDGE OR CONDEM ANOTHER. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY.MAY HE SOAR HOME SAFELY HOME TO SPIRIT AND FIND ETERNAL PEACE.




Cultwatch
Cultwatch
09:15 Mar 21 2018

It breaks my heart..





 

Lost boys

17:22 Mar 20 2018
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Lost boys" is a term used for young men who have been excommunicated or pressured to leave polygamous Mormon fundamentalist groups such as the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (FLDS).They are alleged to be pressured to leave by adult men to reduce competition for wives within such sects, usually when they are between the ages of 13 and 21


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Susan B Anthony

07:28 Mar 20 2018
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in 1872, Susan b. Anthony was arrested for voting in her hometown of Rochester, New York, and convicted in a widely publicised trial. Although she refused to pay the fine, the authorities declined to take further action. In 1878, Anthony and Stanton arranged for Congress to be presented with an amendment giving women the right to vote. Popularly known as the Anthony Amendment, it became the Nineteenth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution in 1920!


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Don't judge

06:27 Mar 20 2018
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Instead, study the motives behind the words of the person casting the bad judgment. An honest woman can sell tangerines all day and remain a good person until she dies, but there will always be naysayers who will try to convince you otherwise. Perhaps this woman did not give them something for free, or at a discount. Perhaps too, that she refused to stand with them when they were wrong — or just stood up for something she felt was right. And also, it could be that some bitter women are envious of her, or that she rejected the advances of some very proud men. Always trust your heart. If the Creator stood before a million men with the light of a million lamps, only a few would truly see him because truth is already alive in their hearts. Truth can only be seen by those with truth in them. He who does not have Truth in his heart, will always be blind to her.

Suzy Kassem, Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem


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Bob Marley

05:08 Mar 20 2018
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“Who are you to judge the life I live? I am not perfect and I don’t have to be! Before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean.” – Bob Marley


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VivienneXol
VivienneXol
05:53 Mar 20 2018

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hannahrose
hannahrose
10:02 Mar 20 2018


AGREED. MY MOM ALWAYS SAID TO ME. DO NOT JUDGE AS YOUR YOURSELF ARE NOT PERFECT, AND SAID IF YOU JUDGE OTHERS THEN EXPECT TO BE JUDGED YOURSELF. SHE ALSO TOLD ME SORT YOURSELF OUT BEFORE CONDEMMING ANOTHER. SHE GAVE ME THIS IMPLE RULE- IF YOU WOULD NOT LIKE WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO SAY OR DO DONE TO YOU DO NOT DO IT TO ANOTHER PERSON,AND SAID REMEMBER WHATEVER YOU DO GOOD OR BAD TO ANOTHER PERSON YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE WHAT YOU HAVE SAID OR DONE.




 

Judging

04:48 Mar 20 2018
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Before judging someone, make sure your hands are washed.


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Throwing stones

04:40 Mar 20 2018
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Those who throw the most stones, break all the laws


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Heartbreaking

04:05 Mar 20 2018
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Bryan Michael Egnew, 40 was excommunicated from a church I won't mentioned for being homosexual. A week after that he commit suicide.


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Another note

03:14 Mar 20 2018
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For the person being accused of being excommunicated.
According to the vampyre community you can't be excommunicated unless of a serious crime according to the vampire masquerade.
If this person has committed a serious mundane crime wouldn't she be in prison. Accusing someone of sexual harassment is a crime and you can go to jail. She wouldnt be on vampire rave and ovc. Why the hell is she here. Shouldn't she be punished.
The whole thing smells of bullshit.
This bitch VampieRevenger you can go to hell has well.

I'm sorry I'm in pissed off mood. The group I'm investigating are excommunicating 13 year old boys for stupid ass reasons. So old creepy men can marry has many young girls has possible. I hate that stupid word excommunicated.
You know people commit suicide, become depressed and drug addicts over being excommunicated..
This isn't game it's people emotions your playing with.


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Regarding excommunication

02:54 Mar 20 2018
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Many of these "Lost Boys", some as young as 13, have simply been excommunicated dumped on the side of the road in Arizona and Utah, by the leaders of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (FLDS), and told they will never see their families again or go to heaven. So old men can marry multiple young girls.
Some of the boys who are excommunicated commit suicide each year

I hate the word excommunication it can cause depression, drug addiction and suicides.
Many cults use this approach.

Oh this in regardless, of the person being accused of excommunication.
If the person did a mundane crime, why the hell is she not in prison. Logic people.


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Women fought back

07:07 Mar 19 2018
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A woman fought back against a man suspected of groping her in a grocery-store parking lot in a video released Thursday by Grand Prairie police.

Police say the man groped two women at two locations Jan. 13. 


In video of one incident that occurred around 3:45 p.m. outside the Kroger in the 300 block of East Pioneer Parkway, the man is seen at a distance approaching a woman near her vehicle. He reaches out to her, and she aggressively strikes back at him.

Around 2 p.m. the same day, the same man walked up to a woman in the parking lot of a dollar store in the 400 block of Main Street and grabbed her, police said. He then fled in a black Toyota Camry with paper tags and tinted windows. 

The woman who fought back in the attack, a Grand Prairie mother of two, later shared her thoughts anonymously with local television stations.

"He sexually assaulted me. He grabbed my butt, and put his hands down my pants," she told WFAA-TV (Channel 8).  "That's when I turned around to fight him."


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Catherine moore

07:02 Mar 19 2018
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Catherine Moore

In 2000, Moore, who had worked with domestic violence cases as a Metropolitan Police officer, was awarded 150,000 in compensation after being bullied out of her job after requesting to change shifts in order to share child-care duties with her police officer husband. It may not have been sexual harassment, but the gender-based taunts meant Moore became “a scapegoat for the section’s ills, had her sickness record exaggerated and became the subject of unduly punitive attitudes” following her return to work after a period of maternity leave.


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Catherine moore

07:01 Mar 19 2018
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Catherine Moore

In 2000, Moore, who had worked with domestic violence cases as a Metropolitan Police officer, was awarded £150,000 in compensation after being bullied out of her job after requesting to change shifts in order to share child-care duties with her police officer husband. It may not have been sexual harassment, but the gender-based taunts meant Moore became “a scapegoat for the section’s ills, had her sickness record exaggerated and became the subject of unduly punitive attitudes” following her return to work after a period of maternity leave.


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06:54 Mar 19 2018
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cyberbully was—and I fought back

Dan Marcus—

2015-02-23 09:00 am | Last updated 2017-03-08 12:51 pm

Everyone on the Internet has been cyberbullied. But my bully was closer to me than I thought.

The Internet can be a vicious place. I think anyone who’s ever posted a status or link on Facebook, or even commented on a piece from this website, can attest to that. It’s particularly vicious to those who express their opinions openly, whether that’s on social media or as a writer for an online publication.

I’ve been sharing my opinions on Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr for years, and on the Daily Dot and other websites for a few months. I get negative comments and even hate mail all the time. So when I started getting harassing messages in my Tumblr ask box—remarks criticizing my sexual orientation and appearance—at first I didn’t question it. I figured it was just another troll.

Then something peculiar happened. A friend of mine, whom I’ll call “Lucy” (names have been changed), told me she was receiving harassing messages via her Tumblr ask box. When she described them, they seemed awfully similar to the ones I was getting. But because my friend doesn’t write for a public website, for her to get those kind of harassing comments seemed strange to both of us.

Lucy was determined to get to the bottom of this. So she signed up for a website called Statcounter, which can track the IP address of anyone who visits your site. She waited until she received another message. Then she figured out the IP address and location of the sender. To our enormous surprise, it was a friend of ours, Mary.

Lucy said she confronted Mary about it. Mary’s response was “I’m an asshole,” without bothering to explain herself any further. I didn’t understand why Mary would treat Lucy like that. It’s one thing to get that kind of treatment from some random Internet troll—but a friend? It just didn’t make sense.

I thought that was going to be the last time we’d hear from Mary. I was wrong.

When the messages started up again, they were innocent enough. First, I got teased for liking Christopher Nolan.

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Then I got another message mocking my love for film composer Hans Zimmer.

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(For what it’s worth, my place is very clean. I’m a bit of a clean freak.)

Then I started getting criticized for my appearance and sexual orientation.

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Not to nitpick, but I’m actually bisexual, so the term “fag” was technically inaccurate. I was just getting over that comment, however, when I received the next one:

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Which was followed by this one:

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It was as if my bully, with each taunting remark, was pushing me to take my own life.

I’m a filmmaker as well as a writer, and I dedicated my last short film to my stepfather, who committed suicide a few years ago. My stepfather was like a father to me. He raised me like his son and he was the one who got me into movies in the first place. Unfortunately, he died before he could ever see any of my films. So reading that comment was absolutely devastating. It was as if my bully, with each taunting remark, was pushing me to take my own life.

Then it dawned on me—for someone to have known that, they would have to have known personal details about my life. They would have to have followed me on Tumblr, or been friends with me on Facebook. So I did some thinking. I know I would receive these messages maybe once a week, or every other week. When I received the last one, I started doing some research.

I realized I first started getting these messages back in September of 2014. Then, for a short while, they stopped. While the last message I got was rather innocuous—it was a comparison of me to Sheldon from The Big Bang Theory—when I first read it, something clicked. So I signed up for Statcounter to see the IP addresses of people who visited my Tumblr. The next time I got an anonymous message, I checked the IP address and messaged Lucy, asking her to confirm if it was the same IP address that belonged to Mary. Lo and behold, it was.

Of course this was the same person that had been messaging both Lucy and myself for months. I felt like an idiot for not realizing it sooner.

For a while, I was trying to figure out how to proceed with this information. Should I just hit the “ignore” button on Tumblr and report Mary? Or should I give her a piece of my mind? After talking things over with Lucy, I decided I needed to let Mary know how I felt.

When I was in middle school, I barely spoke out about my bullies. I was too afraid I’d get into even more trouble, or that they would punish me for speaking out. When my mother finally learned what was happening, she took me to a meeting with the teachers. With her encouragement, I told the teachers what was happening. After I finished, the teachers looked at my mother and said, “It sounds like your son doesn’t belong here.” My mother was aghast. The teachers had basically refused to do anything about it.

Ever since then, I’ve been paralyzed with a fear of confronting bullies. But I decided that I wasn’t going to allow this incident with Mary to be a repeat of what had happened to me as a teenager.

I decided that I wasn’t going to allow this incident with Mary be a repeat of what had happened to me as a teenager.

After taking some time to think about what I wanted to say, I wrote a strongly worded letter to my cyberbully, who I was friends with on Facebook. In my letter, I addressed that I was hurt that she had been harassing Lucy and I for several months. It was even more hurtful knowing that it was a friend that was doing the harassing. While I had never been that close with Mary, the fact that I knew her made it sting more than if she had just been a random Internet troll. If you’re confronted with negativity on a daily basis from strangers, you shouldn’t have to face that level of harsh ridicule from your friends.

When I sent Mary that letter, I honestly didn’t expect to hear back from her. For me, sending that letter was more cathartic than anything else. It was a way to make up for what I couldn’t do when I was younger: Fight back.  But she responded within an hour of receiving my message. I was a little taken aback, but I was even more shocked by her response.

In her message, Mary admitted she was responsible for harassing me. This was her reasoning: “Between you and me, the reason I did do it to you and Lucy is because I was jealous. That and I just feel like I couldn’t hang around you guys anymore.” 

She didn’t explain why she was jealous of us, but she didn’t have to: Mary is a filmmaker too, and if I had to rationalize it, maybe she was envious of how I was finally able to complete my last short film.

However, there was more. After Mary explained why she had cyberbullied me, she also said she wasn’t doing it alone. She admitted she had been doing it with yet another friend of ours, Amy. This is a truncated version of the message Mary sent me:

“Both Amy and I apologize for this. It’s a really long story but to put it short, I’ve stopped [harassing people] for a while and tonight it was actually Amy who sent you that. Amy and I tend to play jokes on people we know but I told her about the Lucy incident and we’ve stopped. At least, I have. You may have seen my IP address because I did creep on your Tumblr but I did not send that message. Amy and I are both in on this.”

When I read Mary’s message, I became paranoid. I started wondering who else on my Facebook friends list was harassing me. I remember scrolling through my friends’ list, trying to think of anyone else that might have it in for me. Mary tried to explain herself, though. She addressed in particular the question I asked in my letter: Why would you do this to your friends?

I remember scrolling through my friends list, trying to think of anyone else that might have it in for me. 

“But you know, you’re right. I wouldn’t do this to people who I consider my friend,” she wrote. “I consider you an acquaintance. As to Lucy, I never really felt a strong friendship between us. Sure we had good times but nothing prominent. It sounds awful but it’s the person I am.”

Thanks to the Internet, it’s never been easier to connect with friends on social media. But it’s much harder to realize who your real friends actually are. Is someone you interact with on Facebook or Tumblr truly a “friend”? Or do they feel they’re bound by different standards than the “friends” they interact with in person?

Mary’s message ended with the following plea: “P.S. Can this just be between us three (OK, four)? Please? I think we should all just move on from this and go our separate ways.” Mary knows I write for an online publication, so I knew what that meant: She didn’t want me writing about this incident. But that wasn’t going to stop me.

You’ll hear this type of entreaty a lot from bullies: “Please don’t tell anyone.” They don’t want others to know about their shameful behavior. They want you to stay silent. But their victims shouldn’t give them that satisfaction. If social media was around back when I was in middle school, I might have been more inclined to reach out and tell my bullies how I truly felt. Now that I have spoken out to my cyberbully, I may finally have the courage to do that one day.

I don’t know how to tell bullies to stop bullying. I don’t even know if Mary will continue sending cruel anonymous messages from behind the safety of her keyboard. But I do know this: If you’re the victim of a bully, you don’t have to stay quiet. You don’t have to listen to people who would tell you to sit there and take it. You don’t have to listen to people who might ostracize you, or try to persuade you not to speak out.

NEWS

Irish schools ban campus photos in cyberbullying crackdown

Students will no longer be allowed to take photos at school, after students and teachers were harassed on Facebook.

   

   

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06:39 Mar 19 2018
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Tell Someone To ‘Kill Themselves” And You Could End Up In Jail

Michelle Carter

Three years ago Michelle Carter, was a Taunton, Massachusetts teenager. Today, she is a 20 year-old young woman who yesterday was found guilty of involuntary manslaughter by a Massachusetts judge, who described her behavior as "reckless."

Was her behavior reckless? A judge concluded it was. Through thousands of text messages, Ms. Carter’s behavior was a crime that ended in a single phone call and the death of her then boyfriend Conrad Roy.

Michelle Carter’s conduct was morally reprehensible. Some states criminalize the act of convincing people to commit suicide. Massachusetts has no law. Legally this is a grey area but why take the chance of someone taking their life because of you and why chance going to jail?

In July, 2014, eighteen year-old Conrad Roy died of carbon monoxide poisoning after locking himself in his truck. He did this because of the texts Michelle Carter sent him telling him to ‘kill himself.’ Carter admitted in texts that she took no action; she knew the location of the truck and did not notify Roy's family or emergency services.

According to testimony, on July 12, 2014, the day of Roy's suicide, Carter texted a classmate, "He just called me and there was a loud noise like a motor ... I heard moaning ... I stayed on the phone for like 20 minutes and that’s all I heard. ... I think he just killed himself."

In another text to a fellow student, she texted "I could’ve stopped him." “He got out of the car ... he was scared."

Several of Michelle Carter’s classmates testified that Carter didn't have many friends and pushed Roy to suicide to get more attention.

Prosecutors say that Roy was on the phone with Carter for 47 minutes while in his truck. There came a point where he told her he was getting out of the truck because he feared the suicide attempt was working. Carter texted that she "told him to get back in."

Just days before, in another text message, Carter wrote “don’t be scared… You’re finally to be happy in heaven," according to prosecutors.

Alternatively, Carter could have urged him to talk to his parents, go to an emergency room or contact a suicide prevention hotline.

Carter and Roy met in 2012 while visiting relatives in Florida but lived fairly close to each other Massachusetts. They communicated by text and email.

Michelle Carter was charged as a youthful offender, which means that even though she was a minor at the time of the incident, she was charged as an adult.

Her sentencing is set for Aug. 3. The maximum possible sentence is 20 years.

This tragic story should serve as a wake-up call for kids and teens who tell others to kill themselves. Not only is it a horrible thing to do, but when kids on the receiving end hear this command, some actually go through with it … just like Roy did.

Clearly anyone who tells someone to do this needs help, but so does the victim who obeys the command.

It’s tragic all the way around. Both of these young people needed help.

Youths should consider that by telling someone to ‘kill themselves’ that they can be arrested and could face jail time.

They should think about how very mean and cruel this is, not to mention extremely wrong!

If you don’t like someone, no need to befriend them and certainly wrong to harass them in any way, show acts of cruelty or give orders to ‘kill themself.’

If someone tells you to ‘kill yourself’ do not listen to them. Why would you listen to someone who is so cruel?

If you feel suicidal, don’t give in to your thoughts. Kids’ brains are not mature enough to understand that there is a tomorrow. You can feel bad for a few days and things can seem different in a few days. Seek help.

Never, ever listen to someone who tells you to take your life. As NY Jets Quarterback Bryce Petty recently told students, “You are beautifully and perfectly made.”

We all have bumps in the road which cause us pain, but consider that you have your entire future ahead of you. By obeying someone who tells you to die, you will never be able to fulfill your dreams and goals.

If you feel suicidal tell someone, go to a hospital emergency room. Contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or the GLBT National Youth Talkline at 1-800-246-PRIDE (1-800-246-7743)


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Evil of cyberbullying

06:33 Mar 19 2018
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Two Florida girls are arrested for the vicious cyberbullying of a 12-year-old girl who killed herself after one of her alleged tormentors apparently boasted about her role online

Rebecca Sedwick's mobile phone was the window to her virtual world, but also the door to her cyber-torment. And on her last morning alive, the 12-year old Florida child used the device a final time, changing her identity on a message sharing application to "That Dead Girl" before sending a farewell note to two friends.

Then, instead of going to school, she made her way to an abandoned cement works on the edge of hometown of Lakelands, Florida, climbed a tower and jumped to her death.

Rebecca's suicide has unleashed a bout of soul-searching about the unregulated and unruly terrain where many children now live out so much of their lives.

She is among the youngest victims driven by the debilitating scourge of online bullying to take their own lives. That those sending her hate-filled messages were equally fresh-faced girls is all the more shocking.

"It was clear that Rebecca was being absolutely terrorised online when we looked at the messages she was receiving," Sheriff Grady Judd of Polk County told The Telegraph.

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His officers have now arrested two girls, aged 14 and 12, who they suspect were responsible for the worst of the bullying after the older one of them apparently boasted about her role in a Facebook posting.

Mr Judd told local media that Guadalupe Shaw wrote: "Yes ik [I know] I bullied REBECCA nd she killed her self but IDGAF [I don't give a f---]".

The 14-year-old reportedly told deputies that her account was hacked and said that she did not write the posting.

Rebecca's mother Tricia Norman knew that in the past her daughter had been baited horribly at school and online after a dispute over a boyfriend. So she closed down Rebecca's Facebook account, temporarily confiscated her phone, changed its number and even moved her to a different school.

What she did not know was that her daughter's agony was continuing in a world of social media and messaging applications that are wildly popular with many children but a mystery to most adults.

This rapidly shifting landscape is challenging territory to even tech-savvy parents who may have worked out how sites such as Facebook and Twitter work, only for their children to disappear into the latest crevice of the internet.

Mr Judd said that one of the sites hosting the venomous tirades against Rebecca was ask.fm. It is the same Latvian-based social networking site on which Hannah Smith, a 14-year-old British girl, received relentless abuse from anonymous messagers before killing herself, according to her family.

British campaigners against cyberbullying this week urged MPs on the Culture, Media and Sport committee to follow the example of countries such as Australia and New Zealand to introduce legislation to clamp down on the online abuse.

In Florida, among the taunts that detectives recovered from Rebecca's phone were: "Why are you still alive?", "You're ugly", "Can u die please?" and "Go kill yourself". His department has been investigating whether there is enough evidence to bring charges under recently toughened Florida cyber-stalking laws.

"Rebecca's mother is broken-hearted, we are all broken-hearted," he said in an interview, his voice breaking. "A 12-year-old girl is not supposed to die this way. In my 41 years in law enforcement, I have dealt with thousands of deaths, natural, suicide and homicide, but I have kever known a child leap to their death. This is just horrible.

"If we can stop just one more child from dying this way, then Rebecca did not die in vain."

While it was Rebecca's peers who sent the hate-filled messages, he made clear that he believed that sites such as ask.fm bear a heavy responsibility for their role in deaths such as hers.

"If these sites are not criminally liable, they are morally liable," he said. "They have to share the blame for the suicide of this beautiful child.

"Many of these sites have no moral compass and have no interest in helping.

They don't care, they just want to make money.

"They are an abomination. They have given us no help at all. If they don't cooperate and don't preserve data, it is extremely difficult to investigate. We encounter people using these sorts of sites, leaving no vapour trail, in crimes every day."

The bullying of Rebecca spilt into cyberspace after beginning at school.

The dispute started, as so many can at that age, with a jealous spat over a boyfriend but rapidly spiralled into something much worse.

The taunts and fights became so bad that Mrs Norman first pulled her daughter of school and taught her at home. Rebecca was treated in hospital for physical injuries after cutting her abdomen in distress and given psychological counselling for her mental wounds.

She closed down her daughter's Facebook page and at one stage even took her phone away. But Rebecca seemed to be recovering and Mrs Norman enrolled her in a new school and gave her the phone back after changing the number.

The "old Rebecca" seemed to be back, content and relaxed in her new surroundings. She was laughing and joking again and was going to audition for the chorus and the cheerleading team. "Tricia really thought her intervention had been successful," said Sheriff Judd.

"But her downfall was her phone. That is the common factor in all this, for her and the other girls.

"Parents are the first line of defence. They have to know the social media apps that their kids are using, the usernames they have, the fictitious names they hide behind. Parents have to dig into their children's devices, and if they don't have the expertise, they need to turn to a friend or relative who does. You have to know what your kids are doing."

Mrs Norman thought she was tracking her daughter's online footprint. But Rebecca had signed up for new social media applications and the bullying started again. Her smiles hid the anguish she was hiding. Shortly before she took her own life, she did computer searches on questions about suicide. "How many Advil do you have to take to die?" was one inquiry.

Mrs Norman has confided to friends that she suspects Rebecca may have disguised her pain and suffering because she was worried that her mother might again confiscate the phone to which she was addicted.

"Maybe she thought she could handle it on her own," Mrs Norman told a US newspaper. "You hear about this all the time. I never, ever thought it would happen to me or my daughter.

"Don't ignore your kids, even if they seem fine."


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06:27 Mar 19 2018
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The following is a list of notable suicides that have been attributed to bullying including both in-person bullying and bullying using social media or Internet methods (cyberbullying). Suicides committed under duress are included. Deaths by accident or misadventure are excluded. Individuals who might or might not have died by their own hand, or whose intention to die is in dispute, but who are widely believed to have deliberately killed themselves, may be listed under Possible suicides.

For a list of people who committed suicide in the 21st century due to any cause or reason, see List of suicides in the 21st century.

List of suicides

William Arthur Gibbs (1865–1877) was a boarder at Christ's Hospital school in Sussex who committed suicide by hanging on 4 May 1877 at age 12 after being bullied and beaten. This caused an outcry and the government subsequently held an official inquiry.[1]

[2][3]Kelly Yeomans (1984–1997), age 13, an English schoolgirl from the Allenton suburb of Derby, became widespread news when the cause was blamed on bullying to which she had been subjected by other local children. She was reported to be the victim of repeated harassment and taunting, particularly about her weight. Matters came to a head in September 1997, when a group of youths reportedly gathered at Yeomans's home on several consecutive nights, on each occasion throwing food at the house[4]and shouting taunts aimed at Yeomans. This prompted Yeomans to tell her family, "I have had enough and I'm going to take an overdose."[5] Five youths between the ages of thirteen and seventeen were convicted of intentionally harassing Yeomans in the months leading up to her death.[6]Hamed Nastoh (1985-2000), age 14, A

fghan-Canadian high school student who committed suicide by jumping off the Pattullo Bridge due to bullying.[7][8] Nastoh was a Grade 9 student at Enver Creek Secondary School in Surrey, British Columbia. He left a note for his family about all the bullying he had suffered. In the note it mentions that he was teased by his mates, classmates and even his friends would laugh at him. They would always call him four-eyes, big-nose, and geek, because his average mark was above 90 percent.[7]At 5:00 pm, Nastoh's mother, father, and younger brother, David, went outside to hang out with a neighbour. Hamed and his older brother, Abdullah, were home during the night. One hour later, Abdullah took a shower. Hamed put on his new Tommy Hilfiger jacket, slipped out, and made his way, probably by bus, to the Pattullo. When Nastoh arrived at the Pattullo Bridge he committed suicide.[9

]Dawn-Marie Wesley (1986–2000), age 14, Canadian high school student who died of suicide by hanging due to bullying.[10] She was a student who committed suicide, after allegedly experiencing a cycle of bullying by psychological abuse and verbal threats from three female bullies at her high school.[11] She left behind a note to her family that referred to the bullying to which she had been subjected: "If I try to get help, it will get worse. They are always looking for a new person to beat up and these are the toughest girls. If I ratted, they would get expelled from school and there would be no stopping them. I love you all so much." She committed suicide by hanging herself with her dog's leash in her bedroom.

[11]Nicola Ann Raphael (1985–2001), age 15, Lenzie Academy high school student who died by suicide via an overdose of Coproxamol due to bullying.[12] Information requested for later legal action found that the bullying allegations went back over three years: "Internal papers just released reveal that 15-year-old

Nicola Raphael, who took an overdose in 2001 after being tormented over her gothic appearance, had complained to teachers about alleged bullying long before she died ... the document shows staff clearly knew the youngster, whose suicide shocked the nation, had felt under threat of physical attack but did not inform her parents."[13]

Ryan Halligan (1989–2003), age 13, was an American student from Essex Junction, Vermont, who died by suicide at the age of 13 after allegedly being bullied by his classmates in person and online. According to the Associated Press, Halligan was allegedly repeatedly sent homophobic instant messages, and was "threatened, taunted and insulted incessantly".[14]Halligan's case has been cited by legislators in various states proposing legislation to curb cyber-bullying.[14] In Vermont, laws were subsequently enacted to address the cyberbullying problem and the risk of teen suicides, in response.[15] In 2008, his suicide and its causes were examined in a segment of the PBS Frontline television program entitled "Growing Up Online." His suicide has also been referenced in many other news stories on bullying.

Megan Meier (1992–2006), age 13, was an American teenager from Dardenne Prairie, Missouri, who died of suicide by hanging three weeks before her fourteenth birthday. A year later, Meier's parents prompted an investigation into the matter and her suicide was attributed to cyber-bullying through the social networking website MySpace. Allegedly, individuals intended to use Meier's messages to get information about her and later humiliate her.[16][17][18][19][20][21][22]Brodie Panlock (1987-2006), age 19, was an Australian waitress from Melbourne who died after jumping from a multilevel carpark in Hawthorn. Her suicide was attributed to serious workplace bullying at the cafe where she worked. Her parents successfully lobbied the Victorian Government to amend the Crimes Act 1958 to include serious bullying as a criminal offence with a maximum penalty of ten years imprisonment.[23]

Sladjana Vidovic (1992–2008), age 16, from Mentor, Ohio, hanged herself in October 2008 by jumping from a window with a sheet around her neck. She and her family were from Bosnia. Because of her accent and her name, other students called her names like "Slutty Jana" and "Slut-Jana-Vagina."Tyler Long (1992–2009), age 17, was a homosexual student with Asperger syndrome. Because of his homosexuality and disability, students would steal from him, spit in his cafeteria food, and call him names like "gay" and "faggot". When his mother Tina Long went to the school to complain about the bullying, the school responded to them saying that "boys will be boys" or "he just took it the wrong way." One morning, two months into his junior year of high school, Tyler Long changed his pajamas into his favorite T-shirt and jeans. He strapped a belt around his neck and hanged himself from the top shelf of his bedroom closet. The story of his suicide was later told in the 2011 documentary Bully.[24]Ty Smalley (1998-2010), age 11, was bullied because he was small for his age. Bullies would cram him into lockers and shove him into trash cans. They would also call him names like "Shrimp" and "Tiny Tim". On May 13, 2010, Ty was cornered in the school gymnasium and a bully started a fight by pushing him. Normally, Ty would just walk away when a situation like this occurred, but on this occasion, he stood up for himself and pushed back. He and the bully were both sent to the school office. Ty served a three day suspension, but the bully only served one day of his victim's suspension. After school that day, Ty committed suicide by shooting himself in the head with his father’s .22 caliber pistol.[25] His story was also told in the 2011 documentary Bully.[26][27]

Phoebe Prince (1994–2010), age 15, an American high school student who died by hanging herself, following school bullying and cyberbullying.[28] Her death led to the criminal prosecution of six teenagers for charges including civil rights violations,[29]as well as to the enactment of stricter anti-bullying legislation by the Massachusettsstate legislature.[30] Prince had moved from Ireland to South Hadley, in the U.S. state of Massachusetts.[31] Her suicide, after suffering months of bullying from school classmates, brought international attention to the problem of bullying in US schools. In March 2010, a state anti-bullying task force was set up as a result of her death. The Massachusetts legislation was signed into law on May 3, 2010.[30] The trial for those accused in the case occurred in 2011.[32][33]Sentences of probation and community service were handed down after guilty pleas on May 5, 2011.[34]Tyler Clementi (1991–2010), age 18, a student at Rutgers University in Piscataway, New Jersey, who jumped to his death from the George Washington Bridge on September 22, 2010. On September 19,

Dharun Ravi, his roommate, and a fellow hallmate allegedly used a webcam to view, without Clementi's knowledge, Clementi kissing another man.[35] On September 21, the day prior to the suicide, the roommate allegedly urged friends and Twitter followers to watch via his webcam a second tryst between Clementi and his friend.[36][37] Clementi's death brought national and international attention to the issue of cyberbullying and the struggles facing LGBT youth.[38]Jamie Hubley (1996–2011), age 15, died by suicide in October 14, 2011. The Ottawa teen was subjected to anti-gay bullying. Hubley's death was the impetus for the Accepting Schools Act, 2012, an act of the Legislative Assembly of Ontario which mandated school boards across the province to develop tougher anti-bullying programs with tougher penalties for infractions, and offered legal protections for gay-straight alliances in the province's schools.[39] On June 3, 2013,

Allan Hubley (the father of Jamie) and Laureen Harper announced a new federal anti-bullying strategy, which will see approximately 2,400 teenagers across Canada trained in delivering peer education workshops and presentations against bullying for their fellow students.[40]

Jamey Rodemeyer (1997–2011), age 14, was a gay[41] teenager, known for his activism against homophobia and his videos on YouTube to help victims of homophobic bullying. He ended his life by hanging himself, allegedly as a result of constant bullying.[42]Audrie Pott (1997–2012), age 15, a student attending Saratoga High School, California. She died of suicide by hanging on September 12, 2012. She had been allegedly sexually assaulted by three teenage boys at a party eight days earlier and pictures of the assault were posted online with accompanying bullying.[citation needed] Pott's suicide and the circumstances surrounding it have been compared to the suicide of Rehtaeh Parsons, a young woman in Canada, appearing to show highly similar characteristics. New laws are being considered as a result of these events.[43][44]Amanda Todd (1996–2012), age 15, Canadian high school student who died of suicide by hanging due to school bullying and cyberbullying.[45] She died by suicide at the age of 15 at her home in Port Coquitlam, British Columbia, Canada. Prior to her death, Todd had posted a video on YouTube in which she used a series of flash cards to tell her experience of allegedly being blackmailed into exposing her breasts via webcam;[46] bullied; and physically assaulted. The video went viral after her death,[47] resulting in international media attention. The video has had more than 19 million views as of May 2015.[46]The Royal Canadian Mounted Police and British Columbia Coroners Service launched investigations into the suicide. At the time of her death, Todd was a grade 10 student[48] at CABE Secondary in Coquitlam,[49] a school that caters to students who have experienced social and behavior issues in previous educational settings.[50] In response to the death, 

Christy Clark, the premier of British Columbia, made an online statement of condolence and suggested a national discussion on criminalizing cyberbullying.[51][52] Also, a motion was introduced in the Canadian House of Commons to propose a study of the scope of bullying in Canada, and for more funding and support for anti-bullying organizations. Todd's mother Carol established the Amanda Todd Trust, receiving donations to support anti-bullying awareness education and programs for young people with mental health problems.Kenneth Weishuhn (1997–2012), age 14, was a teen who is known for his suicide which raised the national profile on gay bullying and LGBT youth suicides. Weishuhn, then 14 years old, was allegedly bullied in person, death threats were sent to his mobile phone, and he was the subject of a Facebook hate group. He was targeted for being gay, having come out one month before his suicide. Weishuhn told his mother Jeannie Chambers "Mom, you don't know how it feels to be hated". The bullying was characterized as "aggressive",[53]"merciless"[54] and "overwhelming".[55] In response to the bullying, Weishuhn took his own life in April 2012.[56] He hanged himself in the family's garage.[57][58]Jadin Bell (1997–2013), age 15, was an Oregon youth known for his suicide which raised the national profile on youth bullying and gay victimization in bullying. Bell, a 15-year-old gay youth, was allegedly intensely bullied both in person and on the internet because he was gay. He was a member of the La Grande High School cheer leading team in La Grande, Oregon, where he was a sophomore. On January 14, 2013, Bell went to a local elementary school and hanged himself from the play structure. He did not immediately die from the strangulation and was rushed to the emergency room, where he was kept on life support.[59] The Associated Press reported that a spokesman for the Oregon Health and Science University's Portland hospital announced that after being taken off life support Bell died on February 3, 2013.[60]Bell's death was largely reported in the media, starting discussions about bullying, the effect it has on youth, and gay bullying. The Huffington Post,[61] Salon,[62] Oregon Public Broadcasting,[63] Raw Story,[64]GLAAD,[65] 


Cyberbullying isn't something to laugh about.


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Fight back

06:20 Mar 19 2018
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Aimee Galassi holds a sign during a carwash fundraiser for Rebecca Ann Sedwick in Lakeland, Fla. on Sept. 15. Rebecca committed suicide after being bullied for one and half years.AP

As parents across the country read the story of Rebecca Ann Sedwick, the bullied 12-year-old Florida girl who killed herself last month, it’s impossible not to imagine what we’d tell our own kids to do in her situation.

Central to that conversation is the question of why. Why does this happen?

The world has changed, we tell ourselves. There were always bullies, sure, but now there is a nonstop barrage in the form of text messages, tweets, Facebook statuses, Snapchats and probably a dozen other social-media sites that kids are using that we haven’t even heard of yet.

Or we say: It’s the parent’s fault. They didn’t monitor their children closely enough, didn’t care that their child was being abusive.

But there have always been absentee parents and mean children. Yes, the Internet provides more opportunities for a kind of bullying, but what’s really changed is that real bullies don’t face consequences anymore.

It used to be that bullies had something to worry about. The bullied kid might catch them alone and beat them up. These days, that’s hardly a risk at all. We’ve become a society that views physical force, even in self-defense, as unacceptable.

Never mind that children are jumping off rooftops because of words; it’s fists we’ve banned completely.

Across the country, there are stories of bullied kids who fought back . . . and were promptly suspended or expelled. Last year, 9-year-old Nathan Pemberton of Colorado Springs fought back after his bully physically attacked him. He was suspended.

The school district issued a statement: “District 11 schools employ many anti-bullying teaching techniques . . . and none of these methods include violence or retaliation.” Silly!

Last week in Stafford, Texas, a bullied girl who was getting beat up by her tormentor dared to not just take it. She was promptly expelled despite the fact that this was a modern sort of fight — that is, caught entirely on cell-phone video. Is the official policy to just quietly surrender when you’re being pummeled?

After Sedwick’s death, her 14-year old tormentor kept up her online bile, posting: “Yes ik [I know] I bullied REBECCA nd she killed her self but IDGAF [I don’t give a f - - - ]” on her Facebook page. This is not a person worried about repercussions.

While the Polk County sheriff’s office is bringing charges against the girl and her 12-year-old accomplice, they’re unlikely to really be punished.

The bullies of our youth could be stopped with a surprise punch. The ones of today have protection from that, thanks to our zero-tolerance policies. We’re raising a generation of superbullies.

We don’t give the good kids a fair chance to stand up to the bad ones.

We let the bullies hide behind their keyboards and never have to see the real-world consequences of their actions. If they did, maybe they’d GAF.


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Dawn Cain

14:10 Mar 18 2018
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At approximately 2:50 AM on March 15, 2017, Australian Dawn Cain, 65, heard noises coming from the front of her house. When she moved the curtains aside, a man turned and shone a flashlight at her.

She screamed, “Get out of my house!” and armed herself with a pair of scissors. As she leaped up, making sure to put on her glasses, he tried to shut the screen door. They struggled on either side of the door before it finally came right off.

Then the intruder ran to the front door, and she gave chase. Once the intruder was through the front door, he turned and threw a laptop bag (housing said laptop) at her. She fell, and he attacked her.

After a few punches, he fled and hopped her fence. As she didn’t give up without a fight, Cain survived the ordeal and her possessions stayed right where they belonged!


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Nancy Flynn

06:20 Mar 16 2018
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Nancy Flynn, 71 Year Old Kicks and Clubs Attacker In Missouri, Nancy Flynn’s name is well known. After being attacked in her own garage, she threw some cash on the ground for the man who was robbing her and then kicked him in the groin. As he was recovering and gathering the money, she ran to get some mace and a wooden bat and proceeded to beat him and spray the mace in his face. He took off, leaving Nancy $83 poorer but feeling stronger than ever for having beat-up a man who was probably half her age!


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Words

06:08 Mar 16 2018
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Your own words are the bricks and mortar of the dreams you want to realize. Your words are the greatest power you have. The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience. – Sonia Choquette.


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In 1975

09:22 Mar 15 2018
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But in 1975, women were underpaid and underrepresented in government. So they decided to strike – or as it was then called, the “Woman’s Day Off”, according to the BBC – to demonstrate their importance to society. On 24 October of that year, 25,000 women gathered on the streets of Reykjavik(in a nation of 220,000) and 90% of the female population did not go to work, cook, clean or take care of children.

What did it achieve?

Annadis Rudolfsdottir was aged 11 at the time. She recalled the strike for the Guardian in 2004, calling it “a wake-up call” and a “spur to action”. Vigdis Finnbogadottir became the nation’s first female president five years later, and credits that day with helping her get elected; other landmarks followed. But the pay gap still exists in the country, and there is still room for improvement.

Last October, on the anniversary of the strike, women left work at 2.38pm to symbolize the pay gap, according to the Atlantic.


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Victim of bullying

09:12 Mar 15 2018
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Whitney Kropp, Victim of Bullying Stands Up to Her Tormentors Bullying is still rampant across the country. but Whitney Kropp chose the homecoming game to stand up to those who tormented her. She had been voted onto Homecoming Court as a joke. Instead of being a no-show at the football game, she proudly sported her sash and bouquet of flowers, earning the respect and admiration of her classmates as well as other victims around the world.


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Dakotah
Dakotah
09:20 Mar 15 2018

Its good hearing story's like this.





Cultwatch
Cultwatch
09:26 Mar 15 2018

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Sojourner truth

06:52 Mar 15 2018
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Sojourner Truth became an outspoken advocate for abolition, temperance, and civil and women’s rights in the nineteenth century. Her Civil War work earned her an invitation to meet President Abraham Lincoln in 1864.


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Liu Xiaobo

06:33 Mar 15 2018
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Liu Xiaobo is a Chinese writer, professor, and human rights activist who called for political reforms and the end of communist single-party rule. He is a political prisoner.

Liu was detained in 2008 because of his work with the Charter 08 manifesto, which called for an independent legal system, freedom of association and the end of one-party rule.

He was arrested in 2009 on suspicion of “inciting subversion of state power”. He was sentenced to eleven years’ in jail and two years’ deprivation of political rights.

During his fourth prison term, he was awarded the 2010 Nobel Peace Prize for “his long and non-violent struggle for fundamental human rights in China.”

He is the first Chinese citizen to be awarded a Nobel Prize of any kind while residing in China and is the third person to be awarded the Nobel Peace Prize while in prison or detention, after Germany’s Carl von Ossietzky (1935) and Aung San Suu Kyi (1991).


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Martin Luther jr.

10:04 Mar 14 2018
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Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it. He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

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"Letter from Birmingham Jail," 16 Apr. 1963


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Roxana Saberi

07:51 Mar 14 2018
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Roxana Saberi is an American journalist who was arrested in Iran and detained for 100 days after being falsely accused of espionage. She had been living in Iran for six years, doing research for a book that she hoped would show a more complete and balanced picture of Iranian society. Under pressure and being threatened with a 10-20 year sentence or even execution, Roxana falsely confessed to being a spy. She quickly realized this was a mistake and recanted her confession – knowing this would jeopardize her freedom. Instead of freeing her, her case was sent to trial, sentencing her in eight years of prison.

 “I would rather tell the truth and stay in prison instead of telling lies to be free.”

After her trial, she began her hunger strike – only drinking water with sugar. After two weeks, Roxana’s attorney appealed her conviction. She was released from prison after an appeals court cut her jail term to a two-year suspended sentence.

 “I learned that maybe other people can hurt my body, maybe they could imprison me, but I did not need to fear those who hurt my body, because they could not hurt my soul, unless I let them.”


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Mandela

07:27 Mar 14 2018
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Despite the years of hard labor and harsh conditions he had suffered, Mandela publicly took up the cause of armed struggle again if political negotiations to end apartheid were not initiated.

Because of his courage, commitment and leadership, the country went on to hold its first multi-racial elections in 1994 and dismantle racial segregation.


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Pen is mightier than the sword

08:09 Mar 13 2018
Times Read: 1,592


"The pen is mightier than the sword" is a saying that many people learn as children. Of course, it means that ideas that are expressed in writing can be much more consequential than violence. Words can influence and inspire countless people, and they can live on indefinitely.


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Words have power

08:04 Mar 13 2018
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Words have power. TV has power. My pen has power." —Shonda Rhimes


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Diane von Furstenberg

11:58 Mar 12 2018
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You are the one that possesses the keys to your being. You carry the passport to your own happiness.” - Diane von Furstenberg


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Harriet Tubman day

10:33 Mar 11 2018
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March 10, 1990, is “Harriet Tubman Day”       

Harriet Tubman a strong women, served in the Civil War as a soldier, spy, nurse, scout, and cook, and as a leader in working with newly freed slaves; 

after the War, she continued to fight for human dignity, human rights, opportunity, and justice.

Harriet Tubman—whose courageous and dedicated pursuit of the promise of American ideals and common principles of humanity continues to serve and inspire all people who cherish freedom—died at her home in Auburn, New York, on March 10, 1913; Now, therefore, be it 

Resolved by the Senate and House of Representatives of the United States of America in Congress assembled, That March 10, 1990 be designated as “Harriet Tubman Day,” to be observed by the people of the United States with appropriate ceremonies and activities. 

Approved March 13, 1990.

My friends and I have a saying .
It's called operation Harriet Tubman.
Operation Harriet Tubman has began.

 


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Lady gaga

10:20 Mar 11 2018
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Lady Gaga in Rolling Stone: I was bullied in high school 'for being ugly, having a big nose'SHARI WEISS MAY 25, 2011 12:25 PM

It's no wonder Lady Gaga has spent the last year and a half touring the world.

"When I am not onstage, I feel dead," she told Rolling Stone.

"Whether that is healthy or not to you, or healthy or not to anyone, or a doctor, is really of no concern to me," the singer continued. "I don't feel alive unless I'm performing, and that's just the way I was born."

But not everything about being a pop superstar has come naturally to the 25-year-old.

"Being myself in public was very difficult," she admitted. "I was being poked and probed and people would actually touch me and touch my clothes and [I would] be like, 'What the f--k is that?' just so awful."

"It was like I was being bullied by music lovers," she continued, "because they couldn't possibly believe that I was genuine."

Gaga also revealed her difficult time in high school when she was mercilessly bullied for being different.

"Being teased for being ugly, having a big nose, being annoying," she said. "'Your laugh is funny, you're weird, why do you always sing, why are you so into theater, why do you do your make-up like that?' ... I used to be called a s--t, be called this, be called that, I didn't even want to go to school sometimes."

And even though Gaga makes appearances these days with seemingly more confidence in her fashion choices and music than ever before, she's still fighting a battle against critics and listeners who believe she's only an attention-seeker and not a true artist.

REVIEW: LADY GAGA'S 'BORN THIS WAY' ALBUM

"I have attention," she acknowledged before speculating on why people may doubt her sincerity and overlook her talent.

"Is it that you believe that I am attention-seeking or shock for shock's sake, or is it just that it's been a long time since someone has embraced the art form the way that I have?" she wondered.

"Perhaps it's been a couple of decades since there's been an artist that's been as vocal about culture, religion, human rights, politics," she continued. "I'm so passionate about what I do, every bass line, every [equalizer]."

"Why is it that you don't want more from the artist?" she wondered. "Why is it that you expect so little, so when I give and give, you assume it's narcissistic?"

With her credibility still up for debate among some consumers and music industry professionals, Gaga relies on the relationship she shares with her fans – her "Little Monsters" – to keep her going.

"We have this umbilical cord that I don't want to cut, ever," she told the magazine. "I don't feel that they suck me dry."

"It would be so mean, wouldn't it, to say, 'For the next month, I'm going to cut myself off from my fans so I can be a person,' " she said. "What does that mean?"

"They are part of my person; they are so much of my person," she added. "They're at least 50 percent, if not more."


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Madonna was bullied

10:16 Mar 11 2018
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 “The boys in my school would make fun of me. ‘Hairy monster.’ You know, things like that … And then, going to high school, I saw how popular girls had to behave to get the boys. I knew I couldn’t fit into that. So I decided I would do the opposite. I refused to wear makeup, [or] to have a hairstyle. I refused to shave. I had hairy armpits … Straight men did not find me attractive. I think they were scared of me because I was different.” —Madonna, Harper’s Bazaar, 2011


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Nauroti Devi

08:34 Mar 11 2018
Times Read: 1,663


Nauroti Devi:

Born to the much oppressed Dalit caste in rural Rajasthan, Nauroti had to face a tremendous amount of pressure. She worked as a stone cutter and also issued the clarion call to fight for proper wages. Through sheer hardwork, she worked her way up the ranks and is now a sarpanch at Hardma village. For anyone who has faced caste or gender discrimination their life, Nauroti is a symbol of reverence.


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08:19 Mar 11 2018
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Successful teachers(sire)make learning fun.

This goes hand in hand with having a sense of humor, but making learning fun doesn’t mean you have to put on a comedy show. Find ways to mix up your lesson plans based upon your students’ interests. When they see you putting in effort to get to know them and mold your teachings around their lives, the more successful you will become.

Successful (sire's) teachers can empathize with students.

The best teachers are patient with students, and understand when they are under stress or have problems with material. They do whatever is necessary to get their students back on track, and are able to recognize that everybody has bad days.

If you’re looking to take the next step in your teaching career, you can learn a lot from what successful teachers do differently. Although it can be quite intimidating to think of all of the things we must do in order to reach our students, it is possible to master these skills one day at a time.


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12:10 Mar 10 2018
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Top 10 Gothic Women Writers

1 EMILY BRONTE

Emily Brontë wrote one of the most famous Gothic novels ever written: “Wuthering Heights.” Published under the name of Ellis Bell, “Wuthering Heights” was controversial at the time because it challenged the prudery and hypocrisy of the Victorian era. Although she published only a single novel and a collection of poetry with her sisters, Emily Brontë is considered one of the greatest – and most inspirational – Gothic writers in history.

2 FLANNERY O’CONNOR

Flannery O’Connor was a mid-20th century Southern Gothic writer with a passion for exploring the grotesque in everyday life and the nuances of human nature. A deeply religious Catholic, O’Connor was interested in experimenting with “characters who are, in their empty-headedness, unusually vulnerable to the thrilling mystery of religious speech,” according to The Atlantic. She is perhaps best known for her short story, “A Good Man Is Hard to Find.”

3 CHARLOTTE BRONTE

The oldest sister of the famous three Brontës, Charlotte worked on and off as a governess at various schools before publishing her poetry in a collection with her two sisters. The following year, she published her famous novel, “Jane Eyre,” under the pseudonym Currer Bell. She outlived all four of her sisters and her brother, passing away in 1854.

4 ANNE RICE

Anne Rice is a popular writer known for her “Vampire Chronicles,” which include dark and yet highly romanticized vampire characters. Her first vampire novel, “Interview with a Vampire,” shot her into immediate fame. Rice writes more than just vampire novels; she has delved into Christian fiction and even erotica in her career. Talk about diversity!

5 ELIZABETH GASKELL

A Victorian Gothic novelist like the Brontë sisters, Elizabeth Gaskell is known for her striking social commentary. She and her husband were friends with writers such as Charles Dickens, Charlotte Bronte and Harriet Beecher Stowe. She is especially known for her biography “Life of Charlotte Bronte,” but she also wrote the novels “Mary Barton” and “North and South.” Both of which showcase dynamic, three-dimensional female characters and Gothic ghost stories.

6 ANN RADCLIFFE

Ann Radcliffe was one of the first Gothic writers, man or woman. Her six novels describe natural surroundings in great detail and all feature elements of the supernatural. The features of the Gothic genre that Radcliffe developed influenced later writers like Edgar Allan Poe, Jane Austen and even Fyodor Dostoyevsky.

7 MARGARET ATWOOD

Although not a Gothic writer in the classical sense, Margaret Atwood is a member of the subgenre, Southern Ontario Gothic. Novels of this subgenre are set in the region of southern Canada and usually feature small, Protestant towns abounding in moral hypocrisy. Atwood’s “Alias Grace” is a notable work in the Southern Ontario Gothic genre.

8 DAPHNE DU MAURIER

Daphne du Maurier was a very successful 20th century author. According to her website, she “wrote dark, often gothic and edgy novels and short stories, with unexpected twists or suspenseful endings.” One of her most famous novels, “Rebecca,” was even adapted into a film by Alfred Hitchcock.

9 MARY SHELLEY

Married to the famous poet Percy Bysshe Shelley, Mary Shelley proved as adept as her husband at producing great literature. Her novel, “Frankenstein; or the Modern Prometheus,” is widely read, reproduced and referenced to this day. The mysteriousness of the supernatural occurrences in this novel make it one of the first popular Gothic novels written by a woman.

10 SHIRLEY JACKSON

According to her website, Shirley Jackson was “one of the most brilliant and influential authors of the twentieth century.” Born in 1916, Jackson acted as both a writer and as a publisher throughout her career. Her dark, twisted short story, “The Lottery,” is one of the most well-known stories of the century and is required reading in many schools.

Immerse yourself in the writing of these ten Gothic women writers and you will be sure to experience all the fear, romance, thrills and horror that have established this genre as one of the most popular since the 18th century.

EDITED BY CASEY CROMWELL



Written by ELLENA KILGALLON


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Mark on this world

10:21 Mar 10 2018
Times Read: 1,694


For these famous people, disability didn't stop them from making their mark on the world.
Helen Keller. ...
Stephen Hawking. ...
Michael J. ...
Bethany Hamilton. ...
Marlee Matlin. ...
Ludwig van Beethoven. ...
Franklin D. ...
Christopher Reeve.


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Real women

08:49 Mar 10 2018
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Real women are classy, strong, independent


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Anita Roddick

07:44 Mar 10 2018
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‘If you think you’re too small to have an impact, try going to bed with a mosquito.

Anita Roddick, founder of the Body Shop


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15 ways men can show chivlary

07:24 Mar 10 2018
Times Read: 1,708


15 ways men can impress women.  

Open the car door and other doors for her

You should also hold open the door for others– including people carrying heavy objects, elderly people, pregnant women etc.

Bring her flowers occasionally…just because

There doesn’t need to be a special occasion to bring her a few flowers.  But she’s sure to be pleased about it!

Give her your coat when she’s cold

Drape it over her shoulders to keep her warm.

Offer to share your umbrella if it’s raining

Do this even if you get a little bit wet.

Walk her to the door at the end of a date

Do this without the expectation of coming inside to stay the night.


While walking on the street, walk on the outside

In the event that something should happen, you would be on the outer edge nearer to the road, thus protecting her.

Asking her to dance

This means you need to learn how to dance and be willing to do so

Taking off your hat when you enter a room

This shows that you’re polite and respectful.

Bringing her breakfast in bed

Do this every once in a while and she’ll never want you to leave.

Allowing her to order first at a restaurant

It’s just the polite thing to do.

Leave her little love notes to find

She’ll treasure them for much longer than you think.

Standing up for her if she is spoken to aggressively

She’ll appreciate your concern for her well-being.


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hannahrose
hannahrose
08:52 Mar 11 2018

SIMPLY PERFECT AND SO VERY KIND SO THOUGHTFUL AND WELL MANNERED. I AGREE COMPLETELY WITH YOU.SO NICE TO KNOW THERE ARE STILL PEOPLE WITH EXCELLENT MANNERS LEFT IN THIS WORLD.





 

Duke Elligton Morris the therapy cat

09:59 Mar 09 2018
Times Read: 1,736


Real vampires love Vampire Rave.

Duke Ellington Morris the therapy cat rides around University of California’s San Francisco medical center in the sweetest cart around, and traditional supplies aren’t carried on board, just an endless supply of cuddles.

The hospital shared an adorable video of the tuxedo kitty on Facebook this week, and already it’s received upwards of 6 million views. The fur ball can be seen visiting critically ill patients and staff at the intense care unit, delivering lots of smiles along the way, without even leaving the cart.

A spokeswoman for the hospital tells PEOPLE that Duke has been regularly rolling down the halls there for the past two years.

“The patients do love having him come in and they always respond positively to it,” says Kristen Bole. “We know that service animals are really wonderful in reducing stress, anxiety, blood pressure and depression.”

Duke isn’t the only therapy animal on the job there, there are also two service dogs who bring cheer to their children’s hospital.



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hannahrose
hannahrose
08:55 Mar 11 2018


SO VERY SWEET! ANIMALS KNOW HOW TO BRING LOVE HOPE AND HAPPINESS TO THOSE THAT NEED IT. MY PETS ALWAYS SEEM TO KNOW WHEN I AM POORLY AND SAD. THEY ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO CHEER ME UP. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS WITH US ALL.




 

Judy Garland

07:49 Mar 09 2018
Times Read: 1,740


"Be a first-rate version of yourself, not a second-rate version of someone else."
Judy Garland


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Ashley Rickards

06:51 Mar 09 2018
Times Read: 1,743


"The power you have is to be the best version of yourself you can be, so you can create a better world.”
Ashley Rickards


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Be different

10:35 Mar 08 2018
Times Read: 1,759


“Whatever you do, be different – that was the advice my mother gave me, and I can’t think of better advice for an entrepreneur. If you’re different, you will stand out.” — Anita Roddick


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Shaqra
Shaqra
11:00 Mar 08 2018

I like this





 

07:42 Mar 08 2018
Times Read: 1,773


“To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.” ― Thich Nhat Hanh


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Eleanor Roosevelt

07:14 Mar 08 2018
Times Read: 1,777


Eleanor Roosevelt
‘A woman is like a tea bag – you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water.


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Emma stone

12:36 Mar 07 2018
Times Read: 1,791


“I can’t think of any better representation of beauty than someone who is unafraid to be herself.” ~ Emma Stone


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Madeleine Albright

11:48 Mar 07 2018
Times Read: 1,792


“It took me quite a long time to develop a voice, and now that I have it, I am not going to be silent.” ~ Madeleine Albright


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power of words

11:19 Mar 07 2018
Times Read: 1,794


The Power of Spoken Words
By Dr. Hyder Zahed

“Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.”
Yehuda Berg

Considering the ‘powerful force’ of the words we utter, we must discipline ourselves to speak in a way that conveys respect, gentleness and humility. One of the clearest sign of a moral life is right speech. Perfecting our speech is one of the keystones of mature people. Before speaking take a few moments to contemplate what you will say and how you will say it; while considering the impact they will have on the listener/s. Be kind to all and speak words that are beacons of inspiration, enthusiasm and encouragement to all. Kind and sweet words are always music to the ears of the listeners.

Many people are compelled to give voice to any passing feeling, thought or impression they have. They randomly dump the contents of their mind without regard to the significance of what they are saying. When we talk about trivial matters as in gossiping about others, our attention is wasted on trivialities.

When we speak we should speak with mindfulness, in a way to solidify peace and compassion in our characters. Not only do our words matter, but also the tone which we use has a huge impact. There are certain rules that should guide all our communications with others. Always speak the truth, avoid exaggerations, be consistent in what you are saying, don’t use double standards in addressing people, don’t use your words to manipulate others, and most importantly do not use words to insult or belittle anyone.

Thich Nhat Hanh, a contemporary Buddhist monk and global peace worker and writer in his book, Being Peace states “speaking honestly in any negotiation between individuals or groups is necessary. Speaking the truth in a loving way is also necessary.” Hahn recommends only “loving speech” even when we are communicating about our differences and disagreements. We must be ‘lovingly honest’; we must discipline ourselves to speak in a manner that conveys respect, gentleness, and humility’.

Gary Chapman in his book, Love as a Way of Life uses the vivid metaphor for words as being either ‘bullets or seeds’. If we use our words as bullets with a feeling of superiority and condemnation, we are not going to be able to restore a relationship to love. If we use our words as seeds with a feeling of supportiveness and sincere good will, we can rebuild a relationship in positive and life-affirming ways.

When we need to talk candidly about something difficult with another person, we must focus on the conversation with keen attention and purpose. During the conversation, we must listen patiently, speak tactfully, and tell the truth as we understand it. We must align our words, voice inflection and tone, eye expression, body language, and actions with our inner awareness in an honest exchange.


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Strong independent women

09:46 Mar 07 2018
Times Read: 1,800


Being a strong, independent woman means that you are able to find happiness on your own. You have self-confidence without having to rely on another person or society for validation. It means emotional independence and being able to have healthy relationships with others without falling into co-dependent patterns. It means learning to express who you are at your core, whether you are shy and soft-spoken or loud and assertive. You don’t need to try fitting a certain mold. Read on to learn how to embrace the woman you are and who you want to become.


Put yourself first. When you notice yourself needing something whether it is intimacy, affection, or attention, give yourself what you need. If you need attention, take a day to pamper yourself in some way. If you need intimacy, spend time writing in a journal or exploring nature. If you need affection, give yourself affection by thinking about what you love about yourself or taking yourself out for dinner and a movie. The more easily you can meet your own emotional needs, the healthier your relationships will be because you will know and understand yourself and be better able to express yourself to your partner.


Don't compare yourself to other women. Having a female role model to look up to is great. Just be careful that you don’t fall into jealousy. Although jealousy is natural to some degree, western society tends to exacerbate female jealousy through advertisements and films that feature unrealistic standards.This jealousy and “catty-ness” is called "relational aggression."[1] Studies have shown that media plays an important role in modeling relational aggression in women. Women who are victims of relational aggression are more likely to suffer from low self-esteem and feel rejected and lonely.[2] The result is a culture of women who feel insecure and unhappy with themselves.Recognize when you experience jealousy. The first step to overcoming jealousy is to recognize when you are experiencing it. If you find yourself reading a magazine and comparing your own body to those of the models, stop for a moment. Do you compare everyone you see in the street to magazine models? Probably not, so spare yourself that judgment too. Models are people who happen to have features that make a good fit for what magazines are looking for, and they are people who are dedicating their lives to modeling as a job. They are no "better" or "worse" than you.



Set clear boundaries. Set clear boundaries that prioritize your own needs. For example, set boundaries with regards to as how much time you spend with someone, or the kinds of criticisms you are not willing to hear. Be sure you have other things going on in your life outside of any romantic relationship, whether it is school, work, friends, a fitness routine, or your family.Set clear boundaries with the individual and communicate to this person your need to be your own independent person. Once the boundaries have been discussed, stick to them.


Stand up for yourself. Whether you are a man or a woman, you will have to learn to fend for yourself in the real world if you want to avoid being taken advantage of. You must learn how to stand up for yourself at school, at work, and in your social life. Work on asserting yourself. Don’t be ashamed or apologetic about asserting yourself. Assertiveness is the middle ground between passivity and aggression.People who are effectively assertive are more happy in relationships and have higher self-esteem.[3]Use “I” statements. These types of statements are less accusatory, and instead they convey that you are taking responsibility for your own actions and feelings. For example, instead of saying, “You never listen to me,” you can say, “I feel ignored when you constantly check your phone while talking to me.”Learn to say no. Put your own needs first instead of always trying to accommodate other people first. If someone keeps asking to borrow money, for example, you can decline their request. If a friend keeps borrowing your car, you can tell her that the car is not available for her anymore.

Believe in yourself. When you believe in your abilities and your achievements, then you will convey strength. Pursue what you need and want. When you lack confidence or play the victim, you risk letting others walk all over you instead of getting what you need and want.



Let people know when they have hurt your feelings. If somebody betrays you in any way, be sure to let him or her know. It can be difficult to share your emotions, especially when you feel hurt or angry. But telling the other person how you feel may help prevent the person from repeating the behavior in the future. [4]For example, you might say, “I felt hurt when you said my article was biased. I'd be happy to listen and incorporate feedback, but I can't do anything with name-calling.”

Address disrespectful and offensive comments. If you hear somebody making a sexist, racist, or otherwise disrespectful comment, don't let it slide. This doesn't necessarily mean engaging in an argument. Calmly tell the person that what he or she said is not appreciated."Please don't talk about other women like that.""Could we please avoid negative comments about Muslims?""Why do you feel that way?"


Learn to recognize codependency. If you are co-dependent, you might find that the relationship defines your life.


Embrace the uniqueness of yourself and others. Try to cultivate compassion and happiness for the fact that everyone is talented and gifted in her own way, including you! Every woman has her own best assets, whether it is her math skills, painting abilities, or leadership skills. Embrace the skills and resources you have and love yourself for having them.If you think someone is talented, let them know.


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Steve Harvey's book

09:02 Mar 07 2018
Times Read: 1,803


Act like a women think like a man.
Steve Harvey


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Funny

08:20 Mar 07 2018
Times Read: 1,808


You're an investigator - can't nobody find stuff out like a woman. Y'all put the police to shame, make the little investigative tricks they show on CSI and Law & Order: SVU look like counting lessons on Sesame Street.

Steve Harvey, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment


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Leaders

07:14 Mar 07 2018
Times Read: 1,814


leaders don’t allow tension and gossip to build. Issues are addressed immediately.

Leaders avoid finger pointing and blaming. Everyone shares in both successes and failures

Great leaders are vulnerable and comfortable with their flaws. They have the ability to disagree and commit. This builds loyalty.

When you are leading you are serving. Help other people do their job and grow.


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Anonymous message against Cyberbullying

16:19 Mar 06 2018
Times Read: 1,835


A message from Anonymous.....
Behind everything online there is a person.
Unite against cyberbullying.





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Body scamming

09:22 Mar 06 2018
Times Read: 1,847


Kerri Verna

Let's talk about body shaming for a moment. Last time I wore white someone commented what a large a$$ I had and that I shouldn't wear white. Even though I'm totally happy with my body and completely self confident with my body image, I will say on that particular day I wasn't feeling my best. I immediately deleted the photo and began to look closely at all my photos. Not that I thought I was "fat" but I began to question wearing white and if it "made me look fat". After a good night sleep, I woke up the next day wondering WHY IN THE WORLD did I let some random internet "troll" bother me so much as to actually delete a photo!! You see, these photos are for me and no one else. I love fashion, photography, puppies, yoga, fitness, and the beach. They ARE all FOR ME and I'm quite happy with who I AM. If someone is inspired by me that makes it even better. So, if you think my butt is too big to wear white or you think white makes my butt looks too big in this photo and you want to tell me ... 1. You are a troll. And 2. Thank you for your opinion but I didn't ask and I don't care. #sorrynotsorry Women OF ALL SIZES need to LOVE their bodies and wear white shorts if you want to! If you like it, wear it ... NEVER let anyone's opinion make you feel bad or shameful about your body. It's just a shell ... It doesn't define you.

Kerri Verna gives us an awesome reminder that while trolls can be hurtful, the only opinions that matter are our own.


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Nontobeko

09:14 Mar 06 2018
Times Read: 1,849


Nontobeko is an aspiring model who was born with albinism. Albinism is a skin condition that causes your skin to become pale, causes vision problems and makes anyone with this condition more sensitive to the sun. Because of her skin condition, Nontobeko has faced online bullying from people. But despite this, Nontobeko has managed to rise above the bullying and has become a model. She uses her position to inspire people living with albinism and uses the bullying as motivation to become bigger and better. She truly is an inspiration for not letting her skin condition or negative comments hold her back.

Quote:

“Cyber bullying has made me doubt myself at times, it's made me question whether I am beautiful or not… But instead of bringing me down, it's actually ended up doing the opposite. It's made me stand up for myself and because of that, it has made me want to be a better person.” 


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Community

12:09 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,863


Members of a community must have a sense of trust, belonging, safety, and caring for each other. Each individual must have important roles to play, so they can feel needed and wanted. No one should feel neglected.
Each person in the community should respect each other.
Remember a community is full of adults. Name calling, bullying, belittling someone, shows childish behavior. So stop it.
This goes for online communities has well.


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death to cyberbullying

10:26 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,884


"If you see cyberbullying don't just sit there do something"
By Anonymous......
Lets unity against cyberbullying.
If we just stand there, letting it happen we are has guilty has the cyberbully.

We are Anonymous. We do not forgive. We do not forget. Except us
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Community leaders

09:25 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,888


A community leader’s job is not to take on all the problems of the world themselves and fix everything, but rather to work together with everyone in the community, to mobilize and guide others, to facilitate solutions and thing about the long-term health of the community and its people.


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Goddess

09:12 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,892


GODDESS

Syma Kharal July 7, 20146

Guard your being time

Take back your feminine power by booking in some much needed me time to reconnect with your inner self. Whether it's morning meditation, an afternoon catnap or watching the sunset, treat this time like any other appointment by not canceling on yourself to do the laundry or more work.

Be open to receiving

Receptivity is the essence of feminine energy, enabling us to live in the flow instead of frustration. Next time someone offers you a compliment or support, graciously say, Thank you! And don't be afraid to ask for help from family, friends, kids, peers and professionals. Remember, the more you allow yourself to receive, the more you have to give.

Surround yourself with beauty

Turn your personal space into a goddess sanctuary by clearing out clutter and adding things that delight your senses and your spirit. Try beautiful plants and fresh flowers, lush fabrics, wind chimes, sea shells, crystals or other gifts from Mama Earth. Adorn your walls with art and pictures that uplift and inspire you. Make every part of your home fit for the goddess that you are.

Nourish your dreams

Just as we conceive and support babies in our wombs, the Goddess approach to manifesting our desires is to nurture them while they are still ideas and daydreams. As we cultivate quiet time to connect with our inner vision and guidance, we take action from a place of joy and trust. In doing so, we birth our dreams into being in divinely inspired ways and divinely perfect time, just as we do our babies.

Slow down and relish

Multitasking is not the way of the Goddess, especially when it comes to appreciating life's simple pleasures. Instead, become fully present and engage all your senses to enjoy daily delights: inhale the scent of your morning coffee and sip it slowly, let a piece of chocolate melt in your mouth, stop power walking and savor the sights.

Love your body

The Goddess did not apologized for their shapes? Heck no. They owned their bodies' divinity to express their goddess' gifts, be they love or tenacity. Embrace your own body as a beautiful, sacred vessel for your spirit to experience itself and treat it with the love and reverence it deserves. Try it out with this flow sequence flow sequence based on the goddess Lakshmi, who represents beauty and abundance.

Live from your heart

We are naturally feeling beings, but life's busyness can hinder us from hearing the voice of our hearts - the true source of our happiness. Reconnect by placing your hands on your chest and resting your awareness in this sacred space. Here, the mind's constant activity will surrender to the heart's calm clarity, leading you to live in greater faith and deeper love.

Connect with Mother Nature

Instantly connect with Goddess energy by spending time with Mother Earth. Walk barefoot on the grass and lie on the ground. Release all your cares to her for healing and transmutation. Allow her to hold you in her loving embrace and fill you with maternal love. Doing this regularly will help you become a strong and grounded goddess in your own world.

Honor your boundaries

Forget trying to please everyone and love yourself enough to say no to draining demands. Bless and release toxic relationships and patterns while keeping the lessons and growth. Stand firm in the power of an authentic no. A goddess isn't a superwoman who does it all, but a happy woman who does only what she wants and values.

Infuse your life with ritual

Goddess traditions, like those in this practice with Sianna Sherman are rich with ritual, because they bring deeper meaning and sacredness to any act. Invite extra blessings into your daily activities by turning them into mini ceremonies. A great place to start is your existing sadhana (daily spiritual practice), by perhaps creating a meditation altar where you can light a candle, burn incense, play music and offer flowers.

While effort and achievement will always have their place in the world, balancing them with sacred feminine practices will bring us much greater flow and fulfillment. As we learn to be as much as we do, the inner Goddess and God meet in divine union, creating perfect yin-yang harmony within and without. Now that is something worth striving for.


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Women

08:16 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,899


"Our mothers, who are women, gave birth to us, gave us our name, raised us (our game), and in return, we disrespect and abuse them? The f@ck’s up with that?"
2pac

Women should be loved, cherished and respected.


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women are Goddess

07:53 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,907


I want to let you know, that all you women are all Goddess. Your all strong and beautiful. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Left up your heads with pride, all you women. Women you are worth more then Gold.
Truly Cultwatch

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Linda Fite

07:48 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,911


Linda Fite is an American writer and editor who wrote the entire run of the Marvel Comics series The Cat

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Tara cat

07:06 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,913


Tara the cat famously fought off a dog that attacked her four-year-old autistic owner as he rode his bicycle in the driveway of the family's Bakersfield home in May of 2014.

She body-slammed Scrappy, an out-of-control Labrador-Chow mix that lived next door, when the dog got out of his yard, ran for Jeremy Triantafilo, grabbed his leg and started shaking the boy from side-to-side.

The cat achieved instant Internet stardom when a clip of the encounter was uploaded to YouTube and viewed more than 24million times. then chased him back toward his home.

More than a year after featuring after the Triantafilos were featured on the Today show because of their protective pet, The Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals in Los Angeles gave its annual award to Tara.


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Pot bellied pig saved owner

06:59 Mar 05 2018
Times Read: 1,915


This Pot-Bellied Pig 'Played Dead' To Save Her Dying Owner
June 16, 2016

Had this happened in the current age of the internet, Lulu the pot-bellied pig would be an internet sensation making headlines around the world. But it was in 1998 when Lulu 'played dead' in the road to save her dying owner.



In 1997, Jo Ann and Jack Altsman of Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania, had agreed to baby-sit their daughter's pot-bellied pig, Lulu. The temporary babysitting turned into a permanent fixture as the bond between the pig and her new parents grew strong. So strong in fact, that when Jo Ann had a heart attack, Lulu was there to save the day.

Jo Ann's heart attack came on August 4, 1998, while her husband was out of town on a fishing trip. She collapsed on the floor and yelled for help. She even managed to throw an alarm clock out of the window in an attempt to get the attention of anyone that might have been nearby. No one was around.

Their only dog, an American Eskimo named Bear, barked and barked. Lulu must have realized it was not enough and decided to act. She forced her way out of the yard in a way that left her skin torn.

She made her way to the road and plopped down as if playing dead. When a driver stopped, concerned about the pig's wounds, Lulu led him back to the trailer.

The man arrived at the trailer, saw Jo Ann in distress, and dialed 911. Jo Ann was taken to The Medical Center, Beaver, for open-heart surgery.

Had 15 more minutes passed, the doctors said, she would have died.



At the Mayflower Hotel in New York, LuLu received the coveted Tiffany gold hero's medal from the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. She made appearances on Oprah Winfrey Show and The Late Show with David Letterman.

Pigs are perhaps the smartest domestic animals known - more so than cats and dogs, according to some experts. Lulu's heroic act is a prime example.


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Amy Jung

09:22 Mar 04 2018
Times Read: 1,922


When Amy Jung adopted Pudding the cat, she had no idea that the feline would end up saving her life the exact same day Jung brought him home. On Pudding’s first night with her, Jung started to have a seizure in her sleep. Pudding jumped up on her, and when she didn’t wake up, he batted her face and bit her nose. Pudding then ran out of the room and woke up Jung’s son, who was able to help. Jung almost didn’t adopt Pudding that day, but luckily she fell in love with the cat and took him home. Within two days, Jung registered Pudding as a service animal.


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Walt Disney

07:16 Mar 04 2018
Times Read: 1,925


Walt Disney was fired by his newspaper editor believing that he lacked imagination and had no good ideas. He went bankrupt and failed a number of businesses. He is now the owner of the billion-dollar company profiting from the most famous merchandise, movies, and theme parks.


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Steven king

13:35 Mar 03 2018
Times Read: 1,932


Steven king was broke and struggling when he was first trying to write. He lived in a trailer with his wife—also a writer—and they both worked multiple jobs to support their family while pursuing their craft. They were so poor they had to borrow clothes for their wedding and had gotten rid of the telephone because it was too expensive.

King received so many rejection letters for his works that he developed a system for collecting them. In his book On Writing, he recalls: “By the time I was 14...the nail in my wall would no longer support the weight of the rejection slips impaled upon it. I replaced the nail with a spike and kept on writing.” He received 60 rejections before selling his first short story, "The Glass Floor," for $35. Even his now best-selling book, Carrie, wasn’t a hit at first. After dozens of rejections, he finally sold it for a meager advance to Doubleday Publishing, where the hardback sold only 13,000 copies—not great. Soon after, though, Signet Books signed on for the paperback rights for $400,000, $200,000 of which went to King. Success achieved!


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Amy Blanksom

08:58 Mar 03 2018
Times Read: 1,938


Raising a Positive Child in a Negative World
by Amy Blankson

As a parent of three girls, I desperately want to shelter my children from the negative events that take place in the world. But deep down, I know I can’t physically protect my children from every trial or danger that they might face, nor would that even be healthy for them. What I can do is equip my children with a powerful tool to increase their resilience and even to flourish in spite of the negative world: a positive mindset.
At first, positivity seems like a woefully inadequate tool to deal with life’s greatest challenges, but research from psychologists like Barbara Frederickson teach us that optimism forms the foundation of world view and impacts every facet of our decision making. Positivity shapes how long we persist at a task, how creative we are in brainstorming choices, how confident we feel as leaders, and even how collaborative we feel with family, friends, and co-workers.
Shawn Achor, former Harvard lecturer and author of the international bestselling book The Happiness Advantage, defines optimism as “the belief that your behavior matters.” Take a moment and imagine what your children would be like if they were more optimistic about life. Maybe your child wouldn’t give up on homework so easily; maybe your child would have the innate self-confidence to face a bully; maybe your teenager would have just a little less angst; maybe your child would have more compassion for the world around us. Teaching young children to use the power of positive thinking shows them that they have more control over their environment than they realize.
It is this vision that prompted Shawn and I to co-author a book for children entitled Ripple’s Effect. Based on the principles of positive psychology, we crafted the story of a dolphin named Ripple who stands up to a bully shark named Snark. Ripple overcomes her fears by remembering that, “Dolphins were made to play and laugh and smile. It part of who you are--But happiness is also a choice.” At Harvard, Shawn studied positive outliers -- people who are above average for a positive dimension like optimism or intelligence. He was able to see firsthand that while genetics may play a role, for many, happiness is something we actually have to work at; it’s a work-ethic, a skill we actually can practice.
Here are a few scientifically-proven ideas to help you boost your child’s happiness and positivity:
Give Thanks. One of the best and easiest ways to teach your child to have a more positive mindset is by practicing gratitude. Every day, ask your children to say three things that they are grateful for. Pick a consistent time to share with each other and repeat for 21 days until the skill becomes a habit. In my family, we practice saying our “gratitudes” as part of our bedtime ritual. I never ceased to be amazed by how powerful an impression even the tiniest of experiences makes on my children’s day! Research shows that this simple exercise helps the brain scan the world for the positive and helps reinforce good memories over time.
Smile. The mere act of smiling does wonders to improve our mood and outlook. When you see someone smile, mirror neurons in the brain light up at the receipt of a friendly gesture, telling our brains to smile when someone smiles at us and spreading the joy all around.
Journal. Encourage your children to take two minutes every day to write down (or at least reflect on) every detail they can remember about one positive experience from the day. It turns out our brains can't tell much difference between visualization and actual experience, so by rehashing a high point in the day you double the effect of that positive experience.
Play. Be intentional about taking at least 15 minutes to do a fun, mindful activity together, like doing hula hoops, going on a walk, or playing hide-and-go-seek. Habits like the "Fun 15" aren't just good exercise—they actually help your brain record a victory, which creates a "cascade of success," where individuals want to start creating a constellation of positive habits around them, decreasing the likelihood for depression.
Every morning as I take my kindergartner to the school bus, I give her a kiss and say, “Have a great day!” I know that not every day will be great—she will undoubtedly face trials and shed many tears. But I take heart knowing that I've bolstered and primed her throughout the week with these little exercises to face whatever comes her way.
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Norah Musoke

07:55 Mar 03 2018
Times Read: 1,940


At 58, Norah Musoke has experienced enough tragedy and hardship for several generations of women. Thanks to her extraordinary spirit and determination, though, she has overcome her past.

After Norah’s husband left her to marry another woman, he sold their home in Byeyogere, Uganda and all the land the family had. This left Norah and her six children destitute. At first, Norah used her sewing skills to start a tailoring business but was unable to make enough money to support her family.

Norah discovered FINCA through a friend and started a new business milling maize. Her first loan was the catalyst that ignited her maize mill’s steady success and expanding profitability.

Over the years, Norah has endured tremendous heartache, losing five of her six children to HIV/AIDS. She has opened her home to her orphaned grandchildren and now is responsible for a family of 18. Fortunately, her business has grown as rapidly as her household. Her mill employs over 30 family members and neighbors.


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Malala Yousafzai

06:58 Mar 03 2018
Times Read: 1,945


Malala Yousafzai is a Pakistani activist for female education and the youngest Nobel Prize laureate.


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Amelia Earhart

09:10 Mar 02 2018
Times Read: 1,960


Amelia Earhart (1897-1937)



The first female pilot to fly across the Atlantic Ocean, Amelia Earhart, did not want anything to stop her from achieving her goals just because she was a woman. She had the courage to take up challenges and emerged a winner. When she was about to take a solo trip around the globe, her flight went missing. However, we believe that she did not have any regrets.


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Marie Curie

06:58 Mar 02 2018
Times Read: 1,964


Marie Curie

“Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.”

Best known for her work on radioactivity, the Polish-French physicist and chemist was the first person to receive two Nobel Prizes, the first female professor at the University of Paris and the first woman to be enshrined in France's national mausoleum, the Paris Panthéon, on her own merits.


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Beautiful

07:16 Mar 01 2018
Times Read: 1,981


Why ALL Women Need To Hear That They Are Beautiful

Not too long ago I was in a relationship with a very sweet woman that I cared for deeply. We patiently dated for two months before I asked her to be my girlfriend. I was really excited to take this step in our relationship. I wanted to tell her how much I cared for her. I wanted to hold her hand. I wanted to tell her how beautiful she was. I kept a low profile the first two months of dating. I felt that this protected me and her as we got to know each other. But now that we were “official,” I was very happy to talk about her, show people her picture, and let them know she was mine.

As I showed people her picture though, I was often a little disappointed of what they had to say about her.

“Wow, she’s really pretty.”

“That’s your girlfriend? She’s very attractive.”

“Cool, pretty girl.”

I was a confused when I heard those words. I was borderline offended. I must have not explained well who she was. Because she was more than a pretty face and a cute girl. She was much more than that. No. You are mistaken, if you just knew her, you’d say more than just call her “pretty.”

Because I knew her, I knew all that encompasses her beauty. Her sweet voice, her gentle spirit, her passion for singing, her kindness, her grace, her brokenness, her need for Jesus, and lastly, she was very physically attractive. So to just say she’s “pretty” is selling her short.

Thinking Like a Guy

I think like a guy (not surprising, last time I checked, I was one).  The thing that speaks life to me is to tell me that I’m a man of integrity. That I’m leading you well. That you love how I love the Lord. That I’m a hard worker. That I’m a good problem solver. That gives me life and respects me. So in turn, I wanted to do the same with her. I wanted to speak those same truths to her.

However, I learned something very important. When I called her pretty, she’d say, “You really think so?” And I would say “Absolutely. I mean look at you!” But I was thinking one dimensionally, like a man would think. That’s not how a woman thinks. When you tell a woman she’s pretty or beautiful, you’re not just talking about the outside. You’re talking about everything that encompasses her. Her very being. Her soul.

See Her Beauty

So when she says, “You really think so?” she’s saying, “Do you really see me? Do you see who I am? Do you see my brokenness, my faults, my talents, my character, my soul?” And to say that she’s “beautiful” speaks life into her like you wouldn’t imagine.

I was very wrong to hold that back at the beginning. I was wrong to encourage her in the way you would encourage a guy. Yes she did need that. But she also needed to be told she was beautiful.


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Dakotah
Dakotah
22:44 Mar 01 2018

You make a good point. My girlfriend is beautiful inside and out. I tell her. However, the one thing I tell her that she appreciates they most is I tell her.... 'I see you.' Meaning I truly see her, all of her, inside and out. I see her in that I actually listen to her and what she thinks, feels, ect. Seeing your mate and REALLY seeing them is the key to a good long term relationship because 'seeing' is listening to her. One thing I have learned is ... women want more then anything to be truly seen.





 

Becca Martin

05:52 Mar 01 2018
Times Read: 1,983


This Is For The Women Who Wake Up With Determination

By Becca Martin

This is for you – the women who are determined to make an impact, the women who wake up every morning with a passion burning inside their chest. The women who are ready to start their day because they have so many ideas inside their head that they can’t wait to share with the world.

This is for you – the women who want to make change because the world matters to them. They don’t sleep walk through every day with clouded vision, they don’t do mediocre work and half-ass their routines. They love life, they work hard at it and they put their soul into it to make the most of it.

This is for you – for always wearing your heart on your sleeve and being unafraid to show the world who you are. For leaving your mark on the world with a face glowing with a smile. This is for you for never giving up on your dreams and for continuing to do the best you can despite any circumstances you face on a day-to-day basis.

This is for you – for always giving your all to life, for letting it break you from time to time because you are only human, after all. But never letting to keep you down, to finding the strength you have within you to get back up and come back stronger.

This is for you – because you are appreciated and acknowledged and without people like you the world wouldn’t be so stable. You are the backbone to a lot of people, your words are inspiring and your passion is radiant.

Never let the world dull your shine because the impact you’ve had on the world is remarkable.

You continuously bend over backwards without a complaint, you go to work and give it all you’ve got then you come home and you continue to work and check in with your friends and family.

This is for you – to acknowledge you for all the sleepless nights you encounter because you just don’t have enough time in the day to get everything you need complete. You stay up all hours feverishly writing and planning and watching your dreams come alive in front of your face because you know the end result will be life changing.

You are made of strength and determination, you will fail, but you will succeed so much more.

The difference is you don’t let failure deter you, you let it motivate you to work harder and smarter. You let it make your ideas greater and you use it to be the best version of yourself you can be. You will conquer the world at your doorstep because you are so full of wisdom and inspiration.

You aren’t just a dreamer, you are a doer. You are a go-getter and you love fiercely and fully. You take pieces of your heart and share them with the world and because of that you are always inspiring others.

You are incredible and inspiring and powerful. You have everything in your heart to be successful and dominate – don’t ever forget that. You can do everything you set your mind to.

This is a reminder that you are appreciated and without women like you the world would be crumbling beneath our feet, so thank you. 


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